my FS said that if I hadn't got pregnant after 6 cycles of clomid then it wasn't going to happen that way

He gave me the two options of IUI and IVF, and I decided to go IVF even though the cost was hight, just cause the odds seemed better for me, and I guess were are lucky, both working professionals so we can afford it. But at the same time, quite a lot of the cost is covered by medicare, so maybe it's not as expensive as you think. the fertility clinic has payment plans etc, so ther may still be an option for you.

I also have PCOS, and I don't have any treatment plans or anything either, I think that as it can't be "fixed", it's just about management. as my primary issue is fertility, that's the place we have started, and perhaps that is what is happening with you as well. If I had lots of other symptoms causing concerns then we may do other things.

But no one else is going to advocate for you except you and DH, so if you are too scared to say anthing, maybe DH can for you?

I'm sure he loves you for you - you are on the journey together after all.

Good luck for friday!!
xox