Good luck to you. I know from 1st hand experience, being given the news of poor egg reserves and poor quality can be devastating. I've found that the FS never likes to just come out with it, but they dance around the facts. My twin sister started her having-a-family journey 2 years earlier than me, so mentally I think I've skipped some of the natural shock you experience when you find out there's a problem, I guess I always knew we'd have issues too seeing my sis's identical to me (and we've proven so over and over). We're on DHEA. Who's to know if it works, studies have shown it has, but I've been on it for 16 months, and it has not improved my egg numbers (1 or 2 a go). During the 4 full stim, max dose IVF attempts we've had, we were lucky enough to get pregnant on the 4th recently. Sadly our little one died at 11 and a half weeks and we had her tested and she had Trisomy 18 (Edward's syndrome). Again evidence of poor egg quality. I guess what I'm trying to say is try not to rule things out for sure. Time makes certain issues clearer, for good or bad, and then decisions can be made a lot easier. Again I wish you all the luck in the world.