thread: Support

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jan 2013
    5

    Support

    Hi There,

    Looking for others going through this ivf journey. I am feeling so helpless right now. I have just finished my 4th ivf attempt and I really need some support, everybody who knows around me always says the wrong thing so I am feeling really alone right now.

    For the first time I am realising that this may not happen - i have a 4yo but I am totally distraught knowing that this might be it. I have never allowed myself to think this way until now and I am really struggling with it. I haven't been able to get out of bed for 4 days now and was hoping to find some others that understand....

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Nov 2011
    SE Melbourne
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    Re: Support

    Oh Cass. It's really hard isn't it. I've been through 9 transfers to get my long awaited BFP for my first child. I'm now 31 weeks. But the girls in here are what really got me through. You'll find them in the LTTTC & AC thread.... Here's the link lovey (hopefully it works xox)

    Be kind to yourself, cause it surely sucks sometimes xox

    Long Term TTC & Assisted Conception April/May 2014

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Dec 2011
    Surrounded by sand
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    Re: Support

    I totally agree with myturn, that thread is a lifesaver and there are many women who have experienced/ experiencing what you are going through.

    I am so sorry you find yourself in your current situation. I truly hope that bellybelly and the amazing women on here can help you through this really tough time. Hugs.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Nov 2011
    SE Melbourne
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    Re: Support

    Ps... You will not be the only one in there with a little one already about your age. A few of my besties are in exactly your situation. They know who they are xoxox girls xoxoxo

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Apr 2009
    Epping, VIC
    2,546

    Re: Support

    Hi-

    I'm onto my 8th IVF attempt, and I also have a 4 year old!

    Please do come into the thread that Myturn mentioned- lots of support in there.

  6. #6
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
    4,637

    Re: Support

    So sorry to hear of your struggles Cass . I too have a 4 year old and I'm struggling big time to add to our little family. I'm getting old too, which is a real worry. Some days are so hard to get through, I hate those panicked thoughts that that might be it for me too. Big hugs lovely, we can only try and put one foot in front of the other. Where are you from?

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Jan 2013
    5

    Re: Support

    I am in Sydney

  8. #8
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    Oct 2006
    In a house, on a hill with a big fat welcome mat!
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    Re: Support

    Cass do you try acupunture? I have an amazing Sydney person if you want to try? She's very knowledgable around tcm/ ivf/ acu.