My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for nearly two years. We recently saw a fertility specialist for the first time. It's not conclusive yet, but it's possible that I can't get pregnant at all for various reasons.

So we are considering other options. This isn't decided, as we are still waiting for some test results, but I thought I may as well do some research.

We are considering surrogacy and would appreciate any experiences or hints and tips from people who have been through the process or know someone who has.

Is it better to do it in India or the US? Ballpark cost? I saw a website that estimated around $25000-35000 USD. How do you find a reputable company in India or US? Googling it brings up loads, but I have no idea how to pick the best place. Are there Aussie agencies that can organise this for us?

How does it work legally in Australia? I know in some European countries they don't recognise you as the biological parent even when you are, you are forever registered as the adopted parent. We would be using our own eggs and sperm.

Any thoughts, suggestions or insights would be appreciated.