Bee, that's great that you are so close. I used to think I was so close to my own sis, but when she kept her pg news from me until she was 12 weeks with EACH of her pgs (and the first one was when I wasn't even TTC so there was no issue with being sensitive to me) even though she told mum, I must admit I really felt hurt. I always thought I'd tell her not long after I found out, but now I feel the precedent has been set and if I'm feeling particularly bitter I think about not telling her until I'm showing.

...now, I only have to get pg...