Hi Gargy

I can totally understand what you mean regarding the issues with Christmas etc. You need to do whatever feels best for you and dh. People will just have to accept your decision.
I'm not even puting up my tree or decorations this year as it is just way too hard. Last year dh and I were planning how great it would be this year when we would have a little bub to celebrate with but as you can see in my signature we lost that little precious 2 days before christmas. We are spending Christmas away with the in laws and my brother and his family and I know I'm going to have a difficult time with it all. We had a family gathering on Sunday with my family for christmas and I was ok for a few hours and then I started thinking about what should have been and had to leave straight away.

Good luck to you with your decision sweet and I hope you get a bfp soon.