DH and I have been married for just over 2 years. We both really want children, but I've been told since I was 18 that it might not be possible.

We haven't been using any protection for the last two years, with no result. I know that we should now be going to doctors and gyno's etc. But I'm terrified. To this point, I haven't been told it will never happen. I'm afraid that they'll do all the tests and tell me I'll never have a baby. I don't want to know.

I'm not sure if I even belong in this group, not sure if I can be classed as 'TTC'. I was wondering if any of you lovely ladies went through this? What made you decide to start all the tests and procedures? If you didn't, can I ask why?

If nobody wants to respond, I understand. I just feel like I'm stuck, I can't stay where I am, but I'm too scared to move forward.