Not too sensitive at all. My thinking is that they're thinking that all your hurt has gone now that you have your DS. Like everyone seems to think that getting pregnant again makes the hurt of a m/c go away, and it doesn't.

There was a thread about it somewhere a while ago about this, and I found it really useful as pre-knowledge, to know that I would probably still have those same feelings of... what is it? not resentment, but unease? over others' trouble-free conceptions and pregnancies, even when pregnant again, or after the baby's born.

So that's what I reckon it is. Not that you're too sensitive, but that they can't see the reason to be sensitive. I don't know if there's a best way to handle it. I guess it depends on what you need.