Dutchie, I believe the description of the safety of valium in pregnancy is just referring to if valium is used during the later stages of pregnancy, then the baby can be born with a slight dependence on it. Using valium at embryo transfer isn't going to have any impact at birth.

My antidepressent medication had the same description - it wasn't going to cause any long-term problems, but may just mean that if I was still on a high dose at birth, the baby would go through withdrawals afterwards.

That said, if you have been able to relax enough for transfers to go without a hitch in the past, I see no reason to use valium now.

BW