David, I have just ordered the book and can't wait to get it so I can get started. I may pass it on to the MIL after I have finished. If I'm still speaking to her by that stage!! lol

Jo, that is awful of your MIL to tell your DH he is selfish for marrying you. I know I would be extremely angry and upset if MIL said something like that to my DH.
We are having an FET on Wednesday and she doesn't know, and won't know. Can't deal with her.