Mez I'm so sorry to hear that your cycle has ended like this. Right now you are fully entitled to feel very unlucky about things, so your doc's comments may be well meaning but they won't make you feel too much better. I don't know if she'll be around to post a reply to you, but this happened to Bumblebea and came as such a shock to her and her DH and it is for you. ICSI worked wonders for her and she has a beautiful DS now.

I hope you get to do another cycle very soon and produce wonderful eggies like last time and have them fertilise with ICSI and get your dream come true.