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  1. #1
    em.. Guest

    hey wattle i dont think you would have any problems, think about the many of people who run farms in the middle of nowhere with no prob,
    you could do a shop,and a pick your own, and you could work in there, keeping an eye on what is coming in and out from the farm,..
    i would be looking at getting an experienced manager or farm hand to help you out a bit as needed to get used to it all...
    but i dont really think having a bub will stop you,, i would definately come for a visit if you did take it... yummy...

    my opinion,, go for it..

    liz

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Dec 2005
    In Bankworld with Barbara
    14,222

    Hi Wattle, what a fantastic opportunity you have.

    We have found it no problem at all. I have either been pg or had toddlers the whole time I have lived on the farm and wouldn't have it any other way. One thing I do highly recommend is a good fence around the house, so they can play outside and you don't have to worry about passing vehicles or them getting out and getting near a dam.

    I do help DH with the administerial side of running things, as well as the hands on side too. During the later stages of pg I wouldn't be helping as much physically, but would still help where I could.

    Having good time management helps too, and quite often I will do stuff around when the kids were sleeping, or just load them up and take them with me (depending on what I was doing). When we had been TTC, we did try to work it around our busiest times on the farm, so I can't have a baby from April-May (sowing) or Nov-Dec (harvest) I don't know what the peak times are for berry farming, but I imagine that like wheat and sheep farming you will have periods where there is not a lot of work on except the very general upkeep of the place. Although Erin being born in the middle of October meant that I had a 5 week old when we were harvesting, but I would still just load the kids up to take Doug's lunch to him and if I was feeding her, then he just waited a bit longer for it.

    I think putting on a farm hand to do some of the heavier work for you will definately be a plus, because there will be times that will be impractical for you to do anything (ante-natal appointments and then feed times etc).

    The kids love being on the farm and being able to help out. At the moment we have 17 poddy lambs and the kids love helping me with them, like feeding out their hay and stuff. Now that Lindsay is at school, I have to make sure either DH or I are around to get him off the bus, but that would be normal even if you lived in town anyway.

    I would also highly recommend you get a Hug-A-Bub as I think it would be perfect for toting the baby around with you while you do jobs, I wish I had one when my kids were little.

    I really think you should take this chance because such a great opportunity like this doesn't come along very often. If there is anything else you would like to know, just pm me.

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    May 2005
    in the national capital
    1,682

    Hi Wattle

    I agree with what others have said. There are many advantages. I'm speaking from the experience of my parents but don't think it would have changed.

    The advantages are that if you have to stop and deal with the kids for a minute/hour/day you generally have the ability to do so without having to justify it to others.

    Sherie is right baout a good fence. Farms a a great place for kids to grow up but can also be really dangerous.

    I would recommend spending some money on a good playpen (like the Phil and Ted's one that has a shade cover on it as well but is really lite so you can move them easily). As that way when you have a little one you can set it up and have them near you but safe while you are doind things like planting or pruning or other berry related activities. Mum used to have a folding wooden one that she called "the pig pen" and if we went fencing or to the cattle yards or smilar and she knew that we would be there for ages it went too and we went in it (until we were old enough to climb over it)

    HTH
    Taff

  4. #4
    Lucy in the sky with diamonds.

    Jan 2005
    Funky Town, Vic
    7,070

    DO IT, DO IT, DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    If this is your dream, you will find a way to make it happen. The others have already given you some valuable practical advice. Who knows when this opportunity will come up again?

    chase your dreams! I would love to be able to do the same......