Kylie - I either use sick leave or else just don't get paid for the appointments. It's just the time I'm missing that bothers my boss.

Ali - I'm an estimator at a mailing house, and quotes are sent to me to be done throughout the day as they are received by sales and account managers, so coming in early wouldn't necessarily help. But the person who will be taking over while I'm on maternity leave started about 5 weeks ago, and I am in the process of training him, so even though he still has a lot to learn, at least he is there to pick up some of the slack while I'm not there.

I haven't had any more run-ins with the boss since the initial incident, I spoke with my immediate supervisor and she understands (being a mom) that I'm going to do what I have to do and will attend all necessary appointments. I finish work in 4 and a half weeks anyhow, so not much longer to worry about this.

Thanks to all who have replied to my post

Stephanie