FFS Tracey. Don't you ever question yourself, and if you do I'll come around and beat you with a celery stick for being so silly (and I know where you live!) LOL.

Although really you're not questioning yourself at all, you're questioning why they're saying what that are.

And, TBH I think they can't see why they can't have it all and you can. Go kick their butts honey. And I agree with Lulu - you need "sister" earplugs!