I have been back at work for 2 months and went back when Amy was 4 mths old. DH is a full time SAHD and it is working very well. I have a well paying corporate career and I love my job. It was really hard at the start leaving Amy but it is okay now. I cherish my 'Amy' time in the afternoons and never work back late anymore. DH is doing such a fantastic job with Amy, she is very happy and well cared for. We get negative comments from family about DH not working but we don't care. They just all need to grow up and accept that tradition has changed and mums can work full time too.