How & when (how many weeks) did you tell your work you were pregnant?

[Kazbah]

I told my boss at 12 weeks, and officially applied for mat leave at 35 weeks. (I started it at 36 weeks). Have a look at any stuff your workplace has around mat leave entitlements and that will give you guidelines as to when they want to be told, however giving them ample time to plan will be appreciated.

[Babyluv]

I told mine at 13 weeks and took maternity leave at 34 weeks

[Persephone1]

Everyone at my work knew by 9 weeks but that was because they all knew we were going through IVF (so they were all waiting for me to get big boobs!) and I had trouble hiding the morning sickness and weight-gain. Their response was very positive.

Other people at my work have announced their pregnancies to the boss in a private conversation, and then announced it in a staff meeting or by email to everyone else.

One friend didn't tell her work until she was about 22 weeks and well and truly showing.

My boss announced her pregnancy when she was about 16 weeks pregnant. There's no problem with that BUT everyone had already worked it out because she was really showing and so the gossip had started before she'd announced it. I think if I was showing I'd be wanting to make the announcement myself rather than wait for everyone to start gossiping, iykwim?

I would suggest a private meeting with the boss and then a general announcement once you're ready. I can imagine you're nervous given your previous loss. Take your time, do it when you're comfortable. Oh, and remember that the chances are that your boss will understand why you're nervous and want to set your mind at ease.

GL Hun.