Im almost into my 2nd tri-mester now and was thinking about letting my work know when I come back after Xmas hols. Ive taken a few weeks off over Xmas & will be well & truly 'showing' by the time I get back, Im having trouble hiding it now. I had a mc right around this stage earlier in the year which is why Im waiting untill after Xmas, it should put me at about 17weeks by then and Ill feel a lot more confident. But it means that the last time my PG was officially confirmed was my scan at 11 weeks

So when did you tell your work? How many weeks were you?

And what did you say exactly?

I mean did you sit your boss down and tell them you would be needing to take maternity leave this year coz you're pregnant? Did you see your boss/supervisor first? or your HR department if you have one?

I need help!! Im really nervous about doing it.