Our daycare doesnt supply nappies, but I do label each of Aidyns nappies individually with a texta anyway... not that I mind if they need to use them for someone else in an emergency, but I wouldnt want it to become a habit, so I label them just so everyone 'knows' they are his
He uses the Mamia brand at daycare and I also have had no probs with them!
I also pack 2 sets of spare clothes for him, usually just daggy ones.
As for shoes, he takes his Robeez shoes to daycare, they are great cause I know he will be comfy wearing them inside as well in case someone forgets to take them off him. And they are still fine for outside playground wear.
I also get paranoid about whether they will not think to take his jumper off inside, as it is quite warm in there, so I always remind them about it, and he always wears a little jacket, as its easier to unzip and have open so he wont be so hot.
Anyway, thats just me... hehe... maybe a tad neurotic, but I just know that no one knows what my child needs as well as I do!