Im struggling with late finishes I get home after 11, so Spock is asleep when I get home. I give her a kiss bedore I go to bed but it doesn't wake her. Then in the wee hours she comes into our bed and on nights ive worked she is hard to settle because she is seeing me again. She even then got anxious/upset when dh had to get up for work at 5. Any tips? I dont think there is any way around it.