Thank you for your responses guys.

bubno.3 - I asked the midwife today and she hasn't personally dealt with a cyst this big before, so she's taking a wait and monitor stance on it at the moment.

Ash - I will be seeing my OB on the 21st of December now, the midwife I spoke to after posting this managed to squeeze me in earlier than planned,so I'll be just short of 12wks. 3wks 6d to go now. Last time I went to the ER with the stabbing and stinging pains from it they put a drip in me and then sent me home, the really don't care all that much until you are past 23wks down here. It's not really bad, just stinging pain and cramping, and it's set off my irritable uterus a few times already too I think as I've felt it contract into a hard ball 8 times already in the past 1.5wks. It's starting earlier every pregnancy now

Maruschke - My OB is the gyno lol makes it hard, I have the earliest possible appointment now for the 21st of December so hopefully it will stay ok until then.

I will be calling my GP tomorrow and making an appointment for next week (DD has been sick today so I tried to get an appointment for her and they don't have any free until monday, I'll talk to him about it as he was concerned about the cramping and tenderness I was having when I saw him last week which is why he gave me the referral for another scan. I'm glad I got a good sonographer today who actually explained things and showed me everything, last weeks sonographer didn't say much at all and didn't even let me see the screen, I had to sneak a peek at the photo's just before we left which is how I know the cyst is bigger.

Over everything going wonky here at the moment, ity never rains it just pours when things go wrong.