Hi Jules,

I got on the net last nte to do some research and did read about the possibility of osteoporosis (unfortunately my mum has it so it might be likely) but I don't care I would take it anyway of course, the net is a great source of info but a little scary I had read asprin should not be taken in pregnancy but under our circumstances it is Ok but it makes you wonder my GP told me that asprin was the "new drug" for preventing miscarriages. I am a little concerned now re my ultrasounds, have not been advised to do them monthly, did have one at 5half weeks and not due for another till 12wks which is the standard one at that time my Dr at the hospital has been on leave and not due to return till the 15th december and the only doctors I have seen are for my asprin and injections I have another appointment on the 11th december with her and will request another u/s I will also start my injections on that day which will be my 8th week and pray its not too late. Also they have told me there is no way of checking if there is a clot in the placenta (how my daughter died) only the growth of the baby will indicate if there is a problem and that is a real worry to me (im trying to be relaxed!!) Thanks so much for your info on injections will also do that.

I am trying not to worry and will try to have faith that my doctors are doing the right thing at the right time....but have a feeling I am going to need to be a little more demanding. I am also feeling sick im just over 6wks now and my sickness gets a little worse everyday and also 24hrs a day which they say is a good thing and worrying everyday is not going to do me any good so have made a promise to myself to just relax Its great being able to discuss this with somone who knows what im going through (asprin, injections etc) so happy you replied to my original message.

We really did agonise about the decision to try again i must tell you i do have a daughter who is 4 and that pregnancy and birth was uncomplicated and she is a real joy and has really helped us through our devasting loss, without her even knowing it, but as with this disease it can come and go apparently so they are unsure if I had it then as they only test for it if you have lost a baby. Life is full of risks and if you dont take them you will never know, your a brave women to keep on trying the way you have and I really really hope the outcome for you this time around is a joyous one.

I have never been on a forum before and finding it a little tricky navigating my way around it and was unable to get your email address so not sure now what to do.

Look forward to hearing from you soon, have a lovely happy weekend.