Hi all
sorry I been away.. needed time to get my head together.
Firstly U/S on monday went well with specialist saying bub was "structurally fine"
Spoke to second geneticist tuesday ( she was ALOT nicer, I explained how i was feeling pressured and she was very respectful) however test results did not come in til wed's day (Had to wait another day for them)
Final results were good... Craig my DP had the "rearrangement" which meant that bubs second Chromosome from him also had the extra bit. Nixsonsmumma, yes I did alot of reading so I was aware of the different kids of rearrangements. Craig appears to have "extra" DNA in his chromosome 16 but it is in what they said was the "junk part' of it. This meant that it was harmless. When they showed us bubs ch16 it showed 1 normal one and one which had an extra bit in it. The reason i was hoping that either Craig or myself had this extra junk was because it would mean bub just inherited it from us. The alternative meant that something had gone wrong in conception with bubs dna and that would mean a range of prob's from physical malformations (cleft pallette, abnormal forhead, club foot, heart and or lung probs) as well as intellectual disability.

I was so releived about the positive results that I forgot to pay my phone bill and was cut off for a couple of days. I cant thank you all enough for your support. pls excuse any mistakes i make today have a splitting headache.