My daughter Olivia (7lb6oz) was born naturally with shoulder distocia.

In hindsight it was a positional issue.

I then went on to have my son Charlie vaginally, and then Lexie naturally.

I was encouraged to have a CS for my son, but inisisted against it. I did end up being induced with him, which was a shame for me, but the birth was easy. I gave birth standing with him.

HTH.

I can understand your dilema.