Thank you all. It's nice to be reminded that I'm not the first to go through this.

Charlotte hope you don't mind me asking but they knew about your dds birth defect before birth didn't they?

Chody I'm sorry you are going through this also. Seeing as you're still pg like me youay be interested in googling 'dr brewer' like I did after other women I've been speaking to who's previously had IUGR? I can't see any of his suggestions causing worse problems and his research really is quite compelling. Just a thought do whatever you feel lead to do

Frog congratulations on your little girl! I'm glad she is well and was able to 'keep cookin' so long my dd1 was born at 33wk6ds and completely healthy also, just super sleepy and only 4lb 2oz. Her preterm birth had nothing to do with placenta function though so I guess that helped her development.

When were you all officially 'diagnosed' not just suspected? At this stage I'm not technically considered IUGR because its only measurements from one scan and right on the borderline at 10%.
Thanks again, its so nice to be able talk all this out.