HI joelsgirl, thanks for replying and so sorry you are having to go through the same thing.

yes, she is at home,was told to avoid all exercise and strain etc, take things VERY easy. but she is now 33 (or is it 34!!) weeks, she is still measuring ahead at 42 weeks, she left work 2 weeks ago, having originally planned to work till 38 weeks.
There was talk of her being induced or straight in for c/s at 37 weeks, but now her OB has decidied to let her go and see what happens, he feels she wont last much longer and could go into labour any day (just due to the increased strain on her uterus)
She is still being monitored weekly with scans every 2 weeks, so far all is going as well as it can be.
how are you going at home with 2 lil ones to run after? keep us updated here if you want, Im always interested in how these things turn out. I hope it all works out as best it can for you.