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thread: A real concern or not?

  1. #19
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jun 2008
    In snuggle land
    4,499

    I should have mentioned talking to a genetic counsellor! Yes, do that first.

  2. #20
    Registered User

    Apr 2006
    Perth
    4,203

    I recently had my nuchal fold and at 41 was worried too. I was told that they wouldn't recommend an amnio unless I came back with worse numbers than 1:300.

    Don't feel bad for not knowing what you would do. I felt the same way and I imagine we're not the only ones who would struggle with the decision.

    Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

  3. #21
    Registered User

    Feb 2011
    Melbourne
    207

    My sister was given a 1:42 chance & had the amnio. She was so stressed & had to have some hard conversations with her partner.
    In the end it was a lot of stress for nothing. Perfect gorgeous child!

    Do what you want to do & don't be pressured into something.

    Best of luck.

  4. #22
    Registered User

    Dec 2010
    262

    I was offered both the Amino and CSV after both of my NT scans. My first preg at 36 was either 375 or 725 (Im bad I cant remember) and they said although that was technically low risk they would still 'encouraged' me to do them due to my age.....I declined and they were fine. This time I was 39 when we got preg and my result was 1185 again I was offered the amino or CSV....again I declined....I think sometimes they just do it to ensure they have covered themselves....Luckily both of my doctors suggesting the tests were perfectly fine when I said no. They just re-iterated that there is still a chance no matter how slight...and made sure I understood that.

    Goodluck with your talk on Monday!

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