Thanks Alan and Bec. Bec, I'm really sorry for your losses, how devastating that you were advised things would be ok only to deliver at 20 weeks. I am so happy that you were subsequently able to carry Eliza full term - and she is such a beautiful girl!
I suppose I just need to wait til the u/s and see what happens, then discuss my options with the Ob.
I would really like to hear any other experiences if anyone else out there has them.