I had bleeds through both DDs' pregnancies - DD1 on and off from 7 to 12 weeks and DD2 at 8 weeks. I had a massive bleed with this pregnancy at 16.5 weeks that had bright red blood for three days with fist sized clots. I was in Hong Kong at the time and absolutely convinced there could be no way I wasn't miscarrying given both the amount of blood and size of the clots. I was put on bedrest after that bleed and like you've said, not easy when you have active little ones to look after, but you really need to take it as easy as you can - for your mental health if nothing else. Your DD will come to no harm at all if she has an overdose of tv and DVDs over the next few days while you keep your feet up. Do you have people around who can help you out? Let me know if I can do anything for you at all - happy to come and sit on your lounge room floor and entertain your daughter while you have a rest.

Got everything crossed for you. Take care.