Fionas - just had to add one more bit, as I woke up at 6am thinking about you (do you feel special now! ). I guess what's slowly occurring to my fuzzy pregnant brain that in SPD as with anything else in life we still have choices. Yes, our choices may be not of our making, or substantially more limited but at the end of the day we can still choose how we react, what we do, what we limit and what we can still do within our limits. Maybe that's why you seem (I could be wrong) much more at peace with your SPD cos you're making active choices, so you HAVE beaten it . I feel like i'm getting closer to that state of mind and no longer wasting time railing against my misfortune but rather looking at what I CAN do.

So with that profound thought, I'm off to have a fabbo day! I hope everyone else is going well