fionas I was bedridden a lot of both pregnancy's too. And like you I could barely walk past the front door. My first pregnancy it came on about 20 something weeks. My second it was early. About 15 weeks. The treatment I had the first time around was brutal and I'm pretty sure made things worse. But second time around I saw a fantastic physio who specialised in women's problems, especially pregnancy and PSD. She was great. I counted down the days to our sessions. And I even had to take panadeine at one point. And I felt so guilty. It really is sucky. But with physical and emotional support you can get through it.