Thank you all so much for being supportive. You must all be such lovely mums, and Curly, after reading your very informative post, I've decided to go through with the amnio and am booked in in 2 weeks time. I identified so strongly with what you said and feel that even though I don't plan to terminate, I cannot function for the next 6 months without knowing. I cannot be a good mum to my DD or a good wife, friend, sister etc. I need to prepare if the test is positive and relax and enjoy the pregnancy if negative
Thank you guys again for your support and encouragement. I will let you know the outcome.