Not Lupus specifically, but I have an autoimmune disease that sounds very similar. (It is called Sarcoidosis, an autoimmune disease where the lumpathic system (lymph nodes) attack each other, causing all sorts of issues).
Anyway, I miscarried in July 2002, and I really questioned whether it had anything to do with autoimmune disease. The answer from my GP and my OB was a definate NO.
I then have gone on to have had two successful pregnancies and now how 2 beautiful babies. In both pregnancies I got tired, but no more than usual/no more than any other pregnant woman! My OB even suggested that the increased hormone activity of pregnancy can help fix autoimmune issues.
In terms of parenting ongoing, I get tired, but I have nothing to compare it too, and it doesn't inhibit our lives at all. (Although sometimes I get nervous if I feel any signs of an attack, which puts me and DH on edge a bit.)
Thanks for your quick reply! Good to see you're doing well as a mum with your condition. I also have fibromyalgia which is a type of chronic fatigue syndrome that comes and goes and causes muscle pain - can only work part time because of it. I was told some FM women find it difficult after delivery and when they take baby home. We're planning to get a cleaner for first month or so and maybe Blue Care nurses to help.
So far, at 23 weeks pain hasn't been too bad and it normally plays up a lot this time of year (humidity brings it on). Still have to have bi-monthly blood tests though.
Fingers crossed I do well - like you seem to be doing! Feel free to message me again if you have any other news/info to share.
Thanks.
Are you on any meds? I was on Prednisone for a long while, but with the help of my physician, I weaned off the meds, and since then I take a a more natural approach to the pain (a lot of walking and swimming) which is harder but better, IYKWIM?
I know what you mean about the humidity.....my pregnancy with Olivia was in Darwin, and I was still working ( outside a lot of the time) and looking back I do not know how I coped. My pregnancy with Charlie was SO SO much easier because it was in Adelaide, without the humidity.
The constant testing is inconvenient, I know. TO be honest, that is probably the hardest thing.....I have to go for regualr lung funtion and respitory testing and with 2 kids, that can be a NIGHTMARE!
Very best of luck. I think your plan for a cleaner is an excellant one. Just be confident that you will cope.
Birth, for any one, is tough, but the benefit is that is shows what a reserviour of strength women have, and I was amazed at how I just "knew" I would be able to cope because all of a sudden my tiredness/pain seemed to diminish in comparison the the needs of my babies...........
I take panadeine, panadol or panadeine forte if pain is bad. Can only take up to 2 panadeine forte a day. Rheumatologist has given me a script for 5mg of pregnisone a day to be filled if/when I need it. After I messaged you earlier today pain was worse and I threw up my panadeine forte (codeine can sometimes make me vomit) However its subsided again and hope I'll be at work tomorrow.
As for the labour part - am due in June and am always well in winter so hopefully no pain (apart from baby labour ones that is!). I can't believe you survived Darwin! We used to live in Tsv (grew up there for 20 years) and I don't miss that humidity at all! thanks again for your support.
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