Getting help for someone who's never been diagnosed...

[Calluna]

I think what I'll do is make a couple of back to back long appointments with my doctor. The first one I'll go in alone and talk to him about it, take a list of examples to show him, basically what I've told you guys then have her speak to him, with or without me there.

I agree she's not so bad she needs to be institutionalised. but something definately needs to change.

[JLeigh29]

Yep, something definitely needs to change. I was thinking something on the Asperger's line, though I am no expert. Bipolar maybe? I think the GP appointment is the best start. GL hun, it'll be a long road, especially if she doesn't see anything wrong.

[Calluna]

My Dad suggested Aspergers too...
She is quite knowledgable, just makes really bad decisions.
I thought bipolar was mainly mood swings