Okay, no matter HOW big/small/flat/inverted your nipples are you can ABSOLUTELY learn to express by hand if you need to. Here's a link to a site with great instructions plus pictures. It's all down to technique - i would easily get 40-60ml MORE if i went by hand instead of using the dumb pump (i had 36J boobs and large flat nipples) - without putting too fine a point on it, there aren't cows you CAN'T milk - every lactating woman can express, it's just about mastering the technique that works for your anatomy. Purplemama, one of BB's much-loved users, expressed for her cleft baby for many months, she might still be in fact. Maybe if you go to the "children's medical conditions" bit and search for threads on cleft babies you'll find her. I'm sure she'll have great info for you, she's an inspiring woman
There's a 65%+ chance your bubs won't have a cleft palate - are they going to scan you for that or do you have to wait and see? Either way you can start to collect all the info and get the support you'll need into place NOW, so that when she comes you are ready for the next steps.
I never had Graves, i've got Hashi's, the opposite, but yes, i hate that it's autoimmune. Diabetes type 1 and hashi's run in my family too, and i HATE that it's my own body that's doing this to itself. When i was first diagnosed the idea of taking meds for the rest of my life terrified me. I hate the idea that now i am NOT ok. If i can't get my medication i will NOT be fine. That bugs me. I pictured the mounds and mounds of medication i had to take over the next 60 years, but i realised that now, today, i only have to take 1 pill. And that's how i think of it. 1 pill. I was a homebirther with DD and i don't relish the idea of having complications with #2 that mean i have to go into hossie. I've never even had a drip in, let alone stayed in a hospital! I guess i'll just have to jump in and see what happens, but i won't be doing so this year!
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