My embarrassing *tmi* surgery

[feeb]

Hugs not nice for you, don't be embarrassed it's more common that you think.

Good luck I hope you recover quickly, you could take codeine drugs and take a stool softner as well so you get on top of pain quickly and effectivly.

[Arimeh]

At least it's up the top of your butt crack and not the bottom!

Good luck on Wednesday xxxx

[onthefly]

Ouch! Poor thing.

[Bumperstump Cummerbund]

My dad has this, and so do I hun - I know how you feel re embarrassment, but the sooner you get the surgery, the sooner you'll be out of pain

[STARRYSKY]

my DP has this problem, it is re occuring as he refuses to have the surgery, he has them drained at times, most times as soon as he feels it swelling, he gets a script for ABs filled.

One thing he has been doing for awhile (since the last drainage, over xmas,about 3 years ago now, had to have it packed and re packed every day :/ until it healed, wasnt nice AT ALL!)
Is to wipe his bum with dettol after every BM. (and up the crack) he hasnt had it swell up since.

are they doing the whole skin graft thing?

[sarah85]

ouchy! you poor thing!
Hope it heals quickly after the surgery! GBHs to you!

[Party-of-five]

thanks I feel a bit better now

My dad had it between A and B if you know what I mean ouch!

No skin graft Starrysky just remove and stitch

[sconeonamission]

My dh had his removed about 4 years ago. He was embarrassed then, but tells everybody now!

[AmandaJ]

My brother had it also, he had to leave his wound open and have it packed, lucky SIL is a nurse and did the packing and repacking for him, save him some embarssment.

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