Thanks for the info chrissy. Unfortunately for us money is a huge problem. Not only do we have the usual bills, mortgage, rates, car, visa, etc, etc, we have to pay out over $800 a month in child support too, to kids we don't even see. (Sux big time).
Having the reversal done privately and paying out that amount of money just is not an option for us. That's why we are going to the Royal Women's Hospital in Melbourne, because all though the wait for the op is at least 12 months, it is at no cost.
Having this op and a baby means more than anything to myself an DH but if the money isn't there, it just isn't there... If only either one of us had rich parents...
We head off to our appointment on the first of October. So not too far away, but at the same time it feels like a lifetime too.
I'm glad everything went well for you and i wish you well on your next try.
Hi mumof5, thanks for joining us here. I think i have spoken to you before on another thread. Isn't it amazing how babies and wanting to have them, controls our lives and everything we do???
Feeling really really flat today. Only because i want a baby more than anything, and i am the most impatient person on the planet. I want to be pregnant and i want to be pregnant 5 minutes ago. If only money grows on trees so i could have the op done sooner. I've spent all weekend looking at pics of my beautiful baby niece who is just on a month old, and although i love her to pieces, she breaks my heart too. When not looking at my niece (auntie's little peanut), i was looking at videos of births on youtube.
I fear that for some reason they will not be able to do the op, or it will not be successful, and that she will be the daughter in will never have......
Maybe it is better if i go for a while, maybe come back when i have had my appointment in october. Maybe i need time out from all the baby stuff for a while and concentrate i what i already have and not what i want but don't yet have.
What do you all think girls???
God i can go on sometimes, so sorry everyone.