My DD is a little like this. She has 4 dolls in her bed at the moment and we have to kiss each of them and tuck them in :/

She also does the same thing with her water bottle although not everytime just when she is in a mood

We also get the hissy fits when things aren't right. Like if we don't give her the right plate or put her food out right (sauce on the side instead on top ect)

In my opinion it is normal although highly annoying.

In regards to her waking because her blanket is messed up.. Maybe teach her how to do it and tell her mummy is tired and won't be getting up in the night to fix it so she has to learn how to do it kwim??