Thanks Lou, and Olive I have messaged you back thanks girls you are life savers!!
Lou i am in country Vic and it has been an ongoing battle to get something to happen...I am giving a womens health clinic a ring on Monday to see what they can offer me if only a shoulder to cry on?? But with luck they have ideas on who to see next, i feel like I should be seeing a uroligist because of the repeat UTI's and trying to keep that under control< i really don't know what to ask for next? my mums advice should have done more pelvic floor exercises and leave it to the professionals, I would still be waiting??
I am about to turn 46, and i think my early menopause has made a mild existing problem worse( i can nearly pinpoint when it happened, I get a cough with all my pregnancies but with number 4 it was reallly bad, to the point I tore my muscles,by the end of the pregnancy I had trouble holding my urine when I coughed I had run out of energy to try and control it and I felt like I was doing damage) then number 5 came along after a vasectomy but the gyno seemed to think what i was talking about was my cervix seeming lower with each pregnancy at to be honest i was'nt really sure what was going on it just felt not quite right?
I gather its not that bad? at least I don't think so,its not falling out etc the pain and UTI's is what has driven me on..would the local hospital be my next point of call?