hey dearmum.....i wish......now we don't just have her doing it, we have a so called older daughter doing it, which i have just found out does not even exist....how sick is that......dh spoke with his lawyer tonight about what she is doing and he is calling csa tomorrow and informing that they have to block on all of our personal details.....we are changing all of our phone numbers and making them silent.... we shouldn't have to be doign any of this, but if it will stop her from harassing us then so be it.....cheers kiya