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hi how's everyone doing? i did the test the last couple of days and it came up negative and i did it again today and the control line is dark and there is a really faint line in the other one so do i wait or do it straight away. cant do anything until my dh comes home from work. which is very soon! :pray:
I would wait a few more days Dea woo hoo for you though, how exciting!!! :crossfingers:it will be darker.
Hey Ray, how was your scan? Hope things are great.
hey storm, my lining still isn't thin enough so i'm booked in for a scan next week i'm getting really peeved
ray:cry:
Oh I dont blame you.
yeah storm it's way darker than the other line allright gotta go.
Dea? Wow lady!! Congratulations woo hoo !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OMG Dea - are you telling us what I think you are??? WOO HOOOO - ive had a crud day and get on and find this out. That is totally awesome woman!!!
Storm - how you holding up?
Ray - oh cr@p honey...get thin lining NOW!!!!!
Hello everyone else
Nothing much new here. Same old same old. Littl ebugger is starting to stretch her legs under my ribs...oh how delightful and the balls of my feet continuously hurt. My cleaning bug has started (yes im feeling it already) and am currently cleaning my bedroom and parent sretreat so I can put the bassinet in here.
Better get back to it
Later ladies
hi maz, i'm cool with it now it will happen when it happens. I was still bleeding after the ultrasound had some blood clots so i'm hoping that was enough.
Then funny thing is i was looking up the chinese predictor, and it was saying october and november it will be a girl so maybe it is fate that the lining wasn't thin enough. I'm not stressing about anything any more, because it won't work if i'm stressed.
Hope everyone else is well?
Dea that's great news so happy for you and your family.
ray:D
when i got that faint positive and then the darker positive is that it? i am going to take the last test today so i hope and pray that i'm still ovulating. thanks ray i hope that everything works out for you! and a very big hello to everyone else. talk later.
Did you mean you have done an ovulation test Dea? If you did & that is dark then yeah, you are. I thought you meant you had done a pregnancy test????????? Oh i'm confused now...............
I thought you'd done a pg test too...but an ob test...atleast your half way there. HOpe your tangoing nicely :)
yeah i should have said which test i was doing. SORRY!! I WISH IT WAS A PREGNANCY TEST THAT I WAS DOING. maybe if all goes well i will be doing a pregnancy test.:crossfingers: thanks storm.
:lol: Dea, I jumped the gun then.Yes, get busy lady......
How are you feeling Maz?
I'm still waiting for AF I am now 15dpo. Boring.... nothing is happening & I dont "feel" anything.*sigh*
Hi girls. I had my other scan yesterday and im so stressed and freaking out.Baby A is fine and the heartbeat is 150 and is measuring at 7weeks 1day. Baby B still doesn't have a heartbeat. It measured at 5weeks 6days yesterday so it has grown since my last appointment but still no heartbeat. I just dont know what to think. I rang my IVF clinic this morning and they are going to call me back. Sorry for carrying on i just cant help it.
HI everyone
Im so excited CONGRATS EM thats great double trouble:lol:
Well i wasn"t so lucky i strarted to bleed 5 days after the transfer :( but some good news is i have the date for my tubual reversal 23 have to go to melbourne RWH on the 2 pre admissions clinic can take upto 3 hours,i have to be there at 2 so it will be a long day. My TR date is 1 year to the day of yours EM so this might be a sign im so excited and scared all in one:confused:.
Maz, really hope that you feel better soon
Bernie - i only waited 1 hour for the second appointment and wa sin there for only half an hour. then did anohter blood test and done. Woo HOO for you matie...fabulous news about your date and the people at the RWH in melbourne are fantastic.
ANy news anyone??????? Storm????
Em how are things now?
Dea were are you????
Ive been having braxtons already and had a heap of bubble like someone was getting into position...hmmm not yet!!!!
Have a great day
hi i'm here. have been busy taking my sil's place at work as she's gone on holidays had 60 children today. and i got to go back tonight! anyway mumof 5 how are u doing? and everyone else! still praying that i have some good news soon.:pray: ok talk soon bye.
Maz I hope I only have a 1 hour wait and half an hour app then I will be home to cook tea and miss peak hour that would be great, but I'm realy scared my girlfriend had this done in Ballarat and passed away 3 days later thats the main reason I went to Melbourne to the RWH and knowing you went there and you are a/ok makes me feel better.Was only on the waiting list 13 mths but still on the one here. Remember fruit tingles help heart burn:lol:
No news from me, just more silly feint + & spotting. Going bonkers over here.............
Em, whens the next scan? Hope all is well ......I would think that if baby B is a week behind then it wouldn't be un usual for there to be no HB just yet?That normally doesn't happen til around 6W, I remember with Angel there was none at 6w5d but then the next week it was fine?
Hiya Bernie
& Hi to everybody else.
Must get back to the sorting & packing Oh gee what fun ( not ))))))
Hi Bernie I'm so so sorry that this cycle didn't take my heart goes out to you.How exciting about your OP and yes maybe it is a sign on the dates.Woohoo I'm so excited for you and your family.
Well I have my scan at 8am in the morning. I'm in two minds about about what i may see but I'm so glad it an early appointment that way I can get home and deal with what ever hand I get delt.
Take it easy ladies
Em, check your messages....i would call you but telstra are clearing our phone lines becasue the got corrosion from the mud & rain....They started working on it, and disconnected our lines to work on them, but haven't come back since. Cheers Kiya ;-)
Wishing you all the best Em & praying for happy news. Please pop in soon & let us know Thinking of you.
Just letting you all know the ultrasound people said it doesn't look like baby B will make it. It has no heartbeat so they said there is only one viable pregnancy. The sac and the yoke is still there and there is blood flow.They said it has probably already started reabsorbing back into your body. I still cant believe it. I sat in the carpark and cried and cried and cried.
Oh Em, big hugs honey. I wish there was something they could do to make it all better. It's such a shame if it does go away for you, but look on the brighter side, at least you still have 1 baby to love twice as much .
I'm so sorry Em.
Oh Em honey....i'm so sorry to hear that....what did they say to do ie, rest etc? It's not the end yet, and it may just be a little slower growing thats all.... if there is anything i can do let me now, and i will do it ASAP :hugs:
Well i just had the most heartbreaking few minutes about 20mins ago. I was down the road at a friends house and she has a 8week baby boy.....I was holding him and he was screaming his little heart out, so i told her i feels and smells wet, she she got all sh*ttyy and changed him....then i took him back again, and nursed him to sleep......she then got all "i now have realised what i am missing, and it doesn't include the baby"....i was just floored......here i am wanting a baby of my own so badly, and here she is saying she doesn't want her baby.....he is the most gorgeous little guy and i love him to pieces, but what can you do. she is the type of person that loves the attention she gets from people because she has a baby, but she doesn't want the hassles of having a baby.....sorry for venting....cheers kiya
Em honey - i am so sorry to hear that. God iM sitting here crying my friggen eyes out. I iwhs I oculd just give you the biggest hug!
Hi everyone.
Em so sorry to hear things didn`t go to well for you thismorning, I really hope they are wrong. Take it easy and I prey that things will be good for you.
Kiya - I know what you mean, its so heartbreaking to think there are so many people out there that cant have children and then there are others who have them and dont want them !! just doesn`t seem fare.
Hope everyone else is well...
Omg Kiya, that is just awful. How disgusting.
exactly storm......i actually broke down and cried with dh tonight, because we so want another baby, and everything that i have gone through, and then her saying hoe she wished he was never here.....we have been watching our dd's 11 & 6yr's playing with our new pram and all the baby clothes and it was just so heartbreaking to both of us.....i know we will have our little baby :-)........Em. i hope everything is going ok with you and you are taking it easy and getting plenty of rest
Hi girls feeling pretty $hit really. I dont really know what to think or how to feel or what to do. I still have one baby but i just cant bring myself to be happy about that one at the moment. I feels so bad cause the one i still have should heal some of the hurt but it doesn't. It just doesn't feel real like bad things like this just don't happen to me and why me why my baby. The lady that did the scan said she measured something in the sac but doesnt know what it is or what will become of it. WTF. Why leave me hanging I just need a yes or a no straight out. I have had my last 3 scans at a private ultrasound place at windsor.Do I go back there so they can compare the past history and measurements so they can tell me straight out if its a No or a Yes. Do I get a second opinion do i leave it and see if its gone at the 12wks scan or if its made it. They never said its dead all the words were PROBABLY. My god i feel like my life has been put on hold again. I have 5 other kids to think of and its so hard trying to be sad and look after them at the same time. Do i hold out hope for baby B or do I just let go. God give me the will to get thru this.
No No No Em, if they are not sure, go back & get a 2nd or even a 3rd opinion. Especially if there is some hope for the little one. Just because they said it MAY be doesn't mean that one is gone, it may be just a bit slower, I know Angel was, Besides if something has developed in the sac then all should not be lost.
I know still having 1 left doesn't change the fact that 1was (may be ) lost & i can only imagine how hard this is for you, but you've gotta keep strong. I really feel for you Em. & NO it's not bloody fair at all.
go & get yourself another scan somewhere else, perhaps with more skills that the Windsor one, & better equipment, if you went to the one near the salvo store then, yeah no wonder they are inconclusive results.
As for me, well AF turned up, all those + tests & all, not happy, but what can I do???? On to cycle3, with DH away building the extensions I dont think I have a chance, LOL, maybe I should wait till we are in our place first. But once I get to O time I cant help myself.
No yesterdays scan was done at Westmead hospital but all my other scans have been done at Sydney pregnancy & womens ultrasound services on George st. I think its next to a realestate and it has a rail along the front of the shops. DH said he doesn't trust hospitals he said you always hear of bad stories and them getting it wrong. When i had my scan there last week they rebooked me for this Thursday but i dont know if i should go or not or wait till my 12 week scan.
I think it will be abit hard with Dh away Storm hehehe
Em, please go and get a 2nd opinion from the other clinic. I had the same thing said to me about my last daughter, and she is still her and a fiery redhead to boot. I was getting scans practically every week from when i found out i was preg right up till she was 17 weeks. Finally we found out why i was havign them done, and i was asking everytime what was wrong and they would tell me and they always asked if i was having bleeding. It was found that right from the start i had a Grade 4 Placenta Previa, and i should not have carried to where i had. They wanted to deliver her at 24, 26,28 weeks. I always asked for 2 more weeks hence going up in 2's. I wanted to try and give her a chance. She was eventually delivered as a VBAC at 38weeks and had perfect aphgars. So you see Em, don't let them say MAYBE, go and find out for sure one way or the other, for Bubba B maybe just be growing a little slower and twins do that same as mine did. Go and do it, and i will be thinking of all 3 of you when you have it done. Kiya
I had all Zac & Angel's done at Sydney women's, I found them to be fantastic.
Wow Kiya!! But you are right, never say never, our bodies & pregnancy are simply amazing!!
He he Em, was thinking about freezing it LOL!!! I'll just have to wait.
Turkey basting Storm :lol:.
I have decided to wait till my 12 week scan on the 30th of October and what will be will be. That way it will have given it plenty of time to grow or it will have given it time to go away. I'm to scared of what I may see if I go now cause it might not be nice.
Probably the best thing to do Em. How far are you now? You need a ticker!!
I have a ticker thing cant you see it under all my stuff????That lilypie thing. Im 8wks 1day today
no honey its only telling us were its at - you need to get the other code (I think the second one down)
I cant talk long...to much pain down stairs
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HIya Maz, you stranger. hope your feeling ok.apart from downstairs that is :)