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Tired mate and ive got so much to do still.
My little Muffet is in a big bed now so we can take downt he cot before bub comes. We thought it would be a good idea so she doesnt think that the new baby is taking her place eg her bed.
Got a bit of oain down there (pressure) and friggen braxton hicks...I swear yourve cursed me this time...I'll be going early you watch
Oh the joys.
Great that Vy is in a bed too!
Hope you seriously don't think I cursed you :(
Nah only pulling ya leg but I do have agut feeling that this baby will be a new years baby
Well I went to melbourne and we got the green light the doc was great so now just counting down the days only 19 to go then 6 weeks off work:dance::dance: Em wishing you all the best & praying for happy news wishing there was something I could say to make it all better .
Now can you see??? I was checking your ticker and maz and they just come up numbers but when you click on it it comes up. But if i log out then go into our thread they all are displayed,hmm weird
YAY Bernie woo hoo!!!
Phew Maz although I still think Xmaz.**ducking**
Now it's there Em. How are you feeling today?
Yeah I'm doing ok. I called my FS yesterday cause i just needed answers so I can move forward and know for sure. He called back yesterday afternoon and i told him how the hospital had just left me up in arms about the hole thing. So i asked him for a straight out answer that when i go for my 12weeks scan would there be any chance that other baby would be ok and he said no not a chance. So I'm ok with that i just needed to know one way or the other. Its still sad and I will never forget and one day when this baby is older i will have to tell the story. But its something I will hold in my heart forever. You know over the years hearing other people having a m/c I would think to myself thats so sad but they will get over it and be fine, but I didn't think anything else of it. Its not until it happened to you that you really know and understand how it feels. Like I said to DH that he will never feel the pain that a mother does. I have lost one of my special little miracles babies but I'm so thankful that it has happened now and not in 4 or 5 months time. I will love that baby forever and ever but its time to put my energy into the one thats still living and my 5 other children. Boy I can rabble on and i wrote all that without crying cause I know all my babies/kids are safe in my heart no matter where they are.
Take care ladies
Em, I'm so glad that you are now looking forward and moving on and concentrating on your other bubba. For every child i have living i have had a m/c with one of them being twins and because they were fraternal they are classed as a separate m/c. That one happened when my babies were 16-17weeks gestation. I have also had 2 m/c while have my tubes done. Each and every m/c is sad and you grieve, but then you start to get on with life again, and thank god for the miracles that you already have. Gosh after re-reading that i hope i didn;t sound to harsh. I'm glad that you have a wonderful support group within your close family as they will be the best medicine to get you through all of this. Cheers Kiya
Em that was beautiful!! But it did make me cry!!
I have had 6 m/c's so I too know how it feels, & yes you do eventually get over it but you never forget & you never loose the love.
hi ladies,
i'm really depressed? So if you can help it would be appreciated .
i had a ultrasound and blood test yesterday, my lining has thickened up again and the blood test said my osterogen levels is still high.
the clinic rang today and said we are stopping your cycle and start again in the new year. I don't know what to do? i'm angry peed off because they doubled everything and said it will work but it didn't and i have paid $300 in sprays and now wait until it's out of my body.
What should i do wait until the new year and try again or have the surgery and take my chances on conceiving that way i'm angry because i have waited nearly a year to get started and nothing but a bill that i have paid to show for it.
ray:(
Em honey - your so strong. I had a m/c in March to twins and it broke our hearts. I think thats why it took so long to get 'acqainted' with this baby. Ive had 7 m/c...3 when my tubes were done and it doesnt make it easier any time. Big hugs honey and im gonna keep thinking positive thoughts for you. And im just as bad as you storm...im crying too.
Ray - holly $hit! that is so GRRRRRRRR did they tell you why they were stopping your cycle??? I would have gone of my chops at them!!!!! another big hug for you
Me - well feeling cr@p. My BIL text me to say - hmm no baby, dont ring Kath (his wife) she feels $hit. will ring you later. WTF!!! How heartless does he think I am??? Im the last person she'd want to hear from especially now seeing im UTD and she's now not. Grr stupid men! He made me feel like pooh! And you know what, when I m/c the twins...she was the first person to call me!!!!! Shoes on a different foot now.
Emma know matter what obstacles you have had in your life you have always managed to overcome them with your amazing strength. When you told me the news I burst out into tears because I know how very much you wanted this and I am sorry your lil peanut is gone. Ladies this woman here is my beautiful sister and at times I truly envy her for what she has accomplished in her life. She is someone I can actually say is a perfect mother and her children are absolutely wonderful and amazing just like her. Emm I admire you so much for having the courage and that strength within you to move on from this and continue to be the awesome sister I love. Even though I live the other side of the world do not ever think for one minute that I am not there right next to you whenever you need your big sister. I love and admire you so much for the person that you are grumblebum!
Gee you found me.Oh how sweet is my sister,love ya heaps Al. BUT you are not aloud in here this is my chat room :lol:.
Hi Em's Sis,
You sound like a very loving and caring sister. You truely are a devoted sister, and you obviously love your niece & nephews. I personally have had the opportunity to speak with Em on the phone and we had such a great chat, even though the kids kept following into the rooms that Em went into. It was cute and and at the same time my kids were doing the same :-) Em......you were brave then especially with everything that you were going through and helped me when i was down, so now the favor is being returned in kind and i want to help you through your hard time. M/C are never an easy thing to deal with especially when you have never had one and when you do you feel like your world is turning upside down. Just know that you have a a family that is supporting you and women who are very supportive of you and everything that you are goign through as we have all gone through some form of grief when it comes to having our wonderful babies. Em Sister, you are a great person and it is great that you came in here and personally showed your support and love for your sister. Well thats enough from me.. Cheers Kiya
PMSL at you 2 em and sis...now fess up how much did she pay you ROFL
Okay yes I know this is not a forum for me but I love my sister so much and wanted her to know that I am there for here whenever she needs me. Now I have to get going and go to Walmart and get those clothes for her lol.. So with that ladies " God never gives us more then we can handle " with that said have a lovely day and my sister truly is amazing!!
SEYA
Thanks Nic thats really lovely. But I'm really doing ok I got the closer I needed to move on and I'm forever greatful I still have one special baby but I will never forget my special man? that lost his fight. I think my sister said it all in a nut shell when she said "God only gives us as much as we can handle". This experiance has made me look at thing in a different light and it has changed me in a way thats hard to explain.
See ya Al take care and love ya heaps MWWAAAHHH!!!.
Wow Maz when you say it like that only 92 days to go it doesn't seem long does it.
em - I bet Mackenzie kicked out her brother cause she want to hog the lime light ;) especially being a girl and all. Mauw to ya honey.
Yes - I cant believe that jsut after chirstmas I'll be having this baby i nmy arms..its gone so quick and I feel like Ive just exploded in size this last week.
Were is everyone....ECHO!!!!
I'm here in spirit!!
Dh has taken our first load up & I'm in a bare house with just the essentials... ( NOTE: PC is still here ) lol, & 5 kids. Trying to get more things done, but with a crawling baby it's getting very interesting.
Em how nice of you sis to pop in.
Maz, what do you mean "after Xmas'? *I'll be hiding under my desk now*
TTC is prob out for this month for me, with DH away it's gonna be a bit hard, it's not like I can borrow sperm off the neighbor & give it back when DH gets home :o
Em, it is great that you have such a wonderful sister. I do not know what to say about the news that you have receive so all I will say on this is take care of yourself.
LOL, Storm about the neighbour as that would be like the joke about the milkman.
Maz, not long for you to go.
I have to get going as hubby has just finished my birthday dinner and I will enjoy it.
Ang
We will have to wait and see if your right Maz. At this stage I will be happy with either.
Wow Storm so you are going then?
:happybirthday: ANG hope dinners nice.
Well we went to Wiseman Ferry today for my son 4th :happybirthday: which is really tomorrow. We had a BBQ and choc Mud cake. They played footy and a bit of cricket (i didn't play i just watched). Then they dropped a line in not that they got anything but the boys just love fishing even if they don't catch anything. I bloody can't stand fishing I guess thats from my dad taking us EVERY weekend when I was little. I seen this Chinese pregnant lady there and she was picking her nose then she blowed it out like guys do (the pig). So thats my exciting news for the weekend.
Take care all XX
Happy Birthday Ang, hope you had a lovely day.
ROFL Em, Chinese people do that all the time, how gross!!!! Glad you had a nice day down Wiso, it's beautiful down there, you should have popped in to see me on your way!!
Hi Everyone,
Hope you are all well.
Sorry i haven't been around for a while. Last monday we finally had our appointment at the Royal Women's and we are now on the waiting list. Got the best news too, while we were there. We first thought the wait was at least a year long, but they told us the op will be done within 6 months. WOOHOO......
From there we went up to Eden, on the far south coast of NSW for a few days. I used to live there before moving up to sydney. My parents are still there as is my youngest son. We had 6 days of justing sitting on beach in the sun....
Anyway, I hope you are all doing ok, Em I am so happy for you and sad at the same time, without being patronising, I know how you feel, I too was having twins, but lost one. It is a feeling that you can never fully describe i know.
Just stick to what you said darl, focus all your energy and strength on your baby still growing and your other children too.
You may find as I did, that your baby will know about it's twin, he/she will feel it inside their heart, that something is missing. Don't see that as a bad thing though, see it as a way of never forgetting.....
Hope you all stay healthy and happy ladies, talk again soon,
framaine xoxoxo
I was thinking of you as I drove thru Windsor but god knows where you live.
Fram.... Thanks, I have heard that before about twins knowing something is missing or start asking questions cause they feel something is not right. So happy that everything went well in Melb. Thats really great news.
Took the kids to Lollie Pops Play land today. Its like this big indoor play thing for kids we spent 3 and a half hours there and I'm so tired just from watching them. So we get home and they just keep going and going. God I wish I had just a quarter of there energy.
framaine thats great I am having my TR there 2 weeks I was on the waiting list 13 mths but they told me was up to 2 years long. My hubby and I just got home from Merimbula on the 29 sep we stayed for 10 nights and the beachs are great we also so went whale watching boy did I feel sick.
just sticking my head in to HELLOOOOO.....slack ass here always forget to post in here:) sorry......
3 firm smacks Chrissy!!! ROFL so happy that number 7 is on the way for you now.
Storm - how long now until you move? Turkey baster at the ready or what??? heheheheheh
Framine - fantastic news matie....finger crossed that they get a cancelation for you SOON
Bernie - OMG that has come so quickly. Hope that your recovery is quick and not half as painful as mine was.
Not much to report here other than my tummy that has all of a sudden exploded. Cant beleive tht im in double figure count down land now....getting scarey!!!!
OMG Maz, doesn't seem right. Makes it sound like it's sooner than we think!!!!SCARY....(PM coming your way))))))
Framaine that is awesome news matie!!!!
Congratulations on # 7 Chrissy
Bernie??? Only 2 weeks to go? **** I am so excited for you & I bet I miss it.Wishing you all the best.
I haven't read back from the last page, so sorry to those I have missed.
em, so sorry about your loss...... i feel for you...... been really busy lately and started clinical placement... with aged care- very different. hows everything else going?
fraimaine, so good not long to go..... you will be expecting soon with these other girls.......
maz, wow 89 days not long....... how exciting for you.....
storm... on your way to number 6!!!!!!!!!!! its fun trying to make them huh!!!
chrissy, how exciting number 7
just letting you all know too... nothing happening with me, just busy with uni!
excited for everyone........................
:( not right now it's not Dh is away.He is coming home on Sat so if I happen to have an elusive normal cycle I should cover O. Bet that doesn't happen though.
Good things come to those how wait Storm. This month is the month cause u'll be so busy with the move and all.
So busy Luv I think you need to take a break
New thread time ladies
Love