Tiggy,
it doesn't matter what everybody else thinks. You're doing it for yourself.
We have a judgmental person ( who shall remain nameless) in our family & we haven't told her I am preg again for those exact reasons. She can find out when she happens to notice my bump!!!!!!!!

Our families are what we decide they are reguardless of what anybody else thinks, or feels they should be.
Don't worry about it, do whats right for you.


8 weeks today