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Hi Everyone
I want to congratulate Storm and I wish for you an uneventful 9 months:happyforyou:
Maz, how excited you must be for tomorrow. I never got to have a 4D scan.
Sushee, how is Charlie going?
I also want to thank you for all the suggestions and I am now looking into it.
Not much to talk about here.
Take Care and look after yourselves.
Yay storm you go girl......seenothing to worry about but stick it up that f****er's bum!
very nervous and excited. Jed took a pic of me last night, not a very nice one of my face as Im so tired but god my tummy is huge. I'll put it on my site when I get back.
Wish me luck pink bit blue bits I dont care I just want to know NOW!!!
xxmaz
Wishing you lot's of luck, and pink bits! I so reckon Mr Wonka is a girl!!
:stork-girl:
Thanks Angela! How are you getting on with your TR, have you had any luck?
GL maz on seeing Wonka's bits! I think it'll be pink bits too!
love
sushee
Guess what guys, it pink bits!!!!!
I went straight to Pumkin Patch and bought a denim overalset with pink stitching. I cant believe that im going to have a little girl.
WTG Maz! Wooohooo! I knew it!
Woo Hoo Maz. Thats awsome !!
Congratulations!! Love the picci too!!
yep I know.
Well here I am talking to myself again! Do I smell????????????:crying:
Im so sorry Storm. Ive been flat out with the reno **** this week and Ive been as sick as a dog spewing again. Im so sick of trademen not turning up when they are suppose to. I ring them an hour after their suppose to be at my house and there like, we'll be there in half an hour. I tell them to **** off. Jed's a builder and if he's running late, we ring and apologise before clients ring him. Ah it ****s me to tears.
Any how enough of my ****
how are you mate? Have you been for another u/s yet? Has it sunk in yet that number 5 is alive?(heheh had to put that in) Has Zac's cold gotten better? All these questions..sorry. Are you 6 or 7 weeks now? (see another one)
Im going before I get into trouble.
Oh did try and post earlier in the week but I pressed the wrong thing and lost the lot (I know excusses, excusses) I was to angry to post again.
until later mate
xxmaz
There you are!!!!!
How are the renos going? Besides driving you bonkers? I know what you mean about people not turning up on time too, that annoys the crap outa me!!
#5 is going ok, I guess, making me sick & tired, so I guess it's alright. Next u/s is 12 june, I'm kinda glad to have a break for a while, by then I should be able to see something interesting.
Yup 7 weeks today.
Zac is all better too!
How are you doing? Is it a gastro bug causing the chucking? Ya poor thing, seems like you are going through enuff without that as well!!
How much longer til all the work is done? I guess it will be bliss when it's all done!!
I"m going now , I've got a rotten headache, I seem to get one every arvo really ****ing me off.
How you going MAz? I hope everything is running smooth!!
My baby doen't sleep anymore! All night he is, norty, standing up in his cot, singing out, jumping, laughing, it's been over a week since I had a good sleep. He used to sleep alnight with out a peep!Now I have a horror!!:( hehe.
How is Miss Vyolett treating you? Good I hope!!
Hello baby. How are you feeling other than the sleep thing? If number 5 alive being good and not giving you m/s?
I still have it but heart burn set in last night and I feel even worse.
Wilhelm use to be (still is occasionally) a ****ty sleeper. I ended up taking away his day time sleep and he fell back into routine quickly. Its worth a try if you havent as yet.
Then there's always ear plugs....just joking.
Ive noticed that the bottom of my tummy (my gunt) you know the bit of skin that hangs between your tummy and you c*** a gunt, has no feeling in it. Its as if the nerves have gone. I have hit it with a pin and I don't even feel it. I'll have to say something at my next appointment (next week).
I better go see what Wilhelm is up to and what he's into.
Try and get some sleep (hahahaha) and rest up mate or even still, fling Zac this way so you can have a day to snooze.
chat soon buddy
maz
Oh God, I wish I could fling him your way!! M/s is a b*tch! I've had it + I have a mega toothache!!
MMmmmmm wonder why your gunt (:eek: ) ((he he)) is giving you grief? Maybe from the Tr & c/s's the nerves are shoddy? The extra weight from little miss may be putting pressure on it?Not nice I imagine.
I think Zaccie is a bit too little to loose a sleep through the day, perhaps he is not getting enough & that's why he is so out of whack, I'm f888ed if I can work it out though.DH & I have been tag teaming, but I still wake up, so whats the point of it? urgh, one day soon I shall work it out. In the mean time, I will just live like a zombie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hope you sort out your gunt(rofl) soon.Not too good if you can poke it with a pin & not feel it, hey maybe you wont feel the birth either!!:crossfingers: wouldn't that be nice????
Ha ha have a nice day.....................
I had tubal ligation done in November and have regretted it ever since.
What made you ladies decide to have the reversal?
My last pregnancy was really scary but I can't help but feel so sad that I've lost my fertility.
I don't even know if I could find a doctor who would agree to it...
*SIGH* perhaps it will always just be a pipedream.
Oh Tiggy I can totally relate t how your feeling. I woke up from the surgury and just cried and cried.
I feel pregnant 3 times whilst my tubes were done. After the 3rd time I said, that's it Im taking it as a sign. I had my reversal done at the Royal Woman's Hospital in Melbourne and it was all done under the public sector so I didn't have to pay. I only had my op in October last year but Storm had her's a few years back and has had her beautiful son Zachary and is currently pregnant with number 5.
Its not an easy thing to go through. Im not going to sugar coat it. Its bloody painful really but its all worth it. I have never regretted it.
take care and do what you feel is right and important to you
xxmaz
I'm going to do a pretty post today. ha ha cos I feel so bad.
Hi Tiggy, I guess I felt the same way as Maz, I didn't like having my fertility gone! I dont really know how to describe it. I had only just met my DH when I got the ligation done. It was something we didn't discuss, something I just did. Anyway it was a huge mistake,, I think it was about 7 years later that I had it reversed. I know I have changed alot since then, in the way I feel about myself, I feel like a woman again, before I just felt kinda bland, like a robot.
I hope you find a good doctor you can talk to about this, there are somethings we do as women, that we totally regret , but it can be changed,......
Hiya Maz. How are things going?
Storm and Maz !
That's exactly how I feel! You just described it in a nutshell.
I am thinking about going back to the doctor who delivered the babies, he was very kind. If I promise him NOT to get pg straight away, he might consider it.
Then of course, if there was a pregnancy we would have to put up with all the judgements from everyone who thinks that pregnancy for us is dangerous/stupid/not well thought out.
Thank you so much
Tiggy,
it doesn't matter what everybody else thinks. You're doing it for yourself.
We have a judgmental person ( who shall remain nameless) in our family & we haven't told her I am preg again for those exact reasons. She can find out when she happens to notice my bump!!!!!!!!
Our families are what we decide they are reguardless of what anybody else thinks, or feels they should be.
Don't worry about it, do whats right for you.
8 weeks today
Oh Storm
your so pretty!!!!!!!very very pretty!!!!!!!!! i had to follow suit. heheheheheh now i have vision's of Adam Sandler running around in a pink tutu in my head:(
Im a very black and white person Tiggy. Tell them were to go. I haven't really had any bad fall back, and I was expecting it from Jed's side of the family but they are excited as us. (maybe cause their Catholics:eek: . I went scrapbooking last night and all the women there were fasinated and think its great too. There' s one ladie there who's been trying for 3 years for number 3 and she told me she's coming to kidnap Vyolett when she's born. I just wanted to hug her.
As for me Storm, still sick and not eating as much as I should be. I got to the midwives on Thursday so lets see what they say. Ive lost 14kg to date but im starting to feel better (maybe that's cause I just got up). A few of my friends have said it looks like Ive dropped already. I have to be careful cause I went into early labour with both boys, Nikolaus at 28 weeks and Wilhelm at 32 so I hope Vyolett behaves or I'll kick her buttocks!
I better go, my brothers coming to plaster soon and I haven't showered and my boobs are hanging (no bra yet) and it's not a pretty sight. Oh can see Vyolett moving on the outside now. I forgot how amazing that is.
My god Storm 8 weeks already. Holly cow man. IM feeling pink here....(Ive been very worng with everyone)
Hubby just read my post over my should, he said no-one has said anything cause they're probably scared to. Opps!
take care babes
xxmaz
oh Maz I want blue bits & Dh wants pink bits!!But I honestly dont really care what it's got!!
Had the u/s today, I am 9w1d, so further than I thought, only a few days though, but still it's a few days less of being sick!! Bubba was wriggling around & moving it's arm & leg buds ( as the shelia put it) awesome! I'm happy now.
How cool seeing Vyolette moving around, it's wicked watching your tummy hey?
No time for my blabbering today, busy busy busy, But I must say, I cant wait to go back to the doctor now!! Wont he be happy to see my result??
Im so happy for you Storm. My god, Wilhelm's birthday is the 16th of January, your number five is due when my baby turns 5. Weird. Twi-light zone here.
Ive been so sick again...I keep thinking this is it, Jed doesn't want any more after this but he said that after Nikolaus too. I don't know how many more we'll have. I keep saying no more cause Im so sick but I'd love just one more....ah...... two close together again would be nice and Im the same, I don't care what it would be...We'll just wait until this time next year and also to see what they say at the midwives on thursday cause ive already had 2 c/s, the op and then this one. Ive had really bad braxton hicks for the last 2 nights. They were that painfull in the front bum that I kept my eye on the clock. every 5 mins for 45 mins. Have to keep a good eye on that.
Hope your sickness goes soon mate. I am so hanging to see what the doctor's face will be like when you tell him (stupid bastard). You have to let me know
better go and sort out tea before I spew again
xxmaz
Errrr Maz, I hate my ****ing doctor! boo hoo.He just went on & on about a small heamorage that was on the u/s & even rang the u/s doc to find out more. It was only noted in the report & nothing else, it wasn;t put in the conclusion & no follow up was suggested, so I kinda figured it was nothing important, but now, ergh I am worried, I have to ring him back this arvo to see what the u/s doc says.So I have no referal yet.
How are you? hope the spewing has settled down.Is it preg related? Oh I s0o hate being sick!! I havent been too bad lately , you, you poor thing, maybe it's all the girly hormones running aroung causing it. Were you crook right through with the boys? Hope it ends soon.
I am going off now to read your pg journal!! I just noticed it!
Have a nice day!!!!!
U/s guy said it was nothing! Grr to my doc.
~~**9w3d**~~
****'n doctor! That's exactly the reason guns have been prohibited. Im so sorry I didn't get on yesterday. You poor thing. Doc's think they are bloody god's, don't they. Thank god the u/s jammed it up his arse (having a good day can u tell?)
I had m/s until around 13 weeks with the boys. I agree with you, its gotta be the girlie hormones. My brother can't get over how much I don't eat any more.
Has my appointment with the midwives today. She was fantastic. She spoke to me normally and still asked if I wanted any info cause ive already got the 2 boys. She also made sure I got into the best doctor at the hospital. I could have kissed her arse.
I pulled my knee out the other night when I went bum up out of the reno. Its killing, so its just another war wound of being pg.
Better go and chec k out my other things (forums) have total mind block tonight. Just a little over tired.
chat soon
xxmaz
Maz, maz maz, what are you doing to yourself????????? You need to be resting!! NORTY NORTY NORTY....
Glad your appointment went well. I have my first one booked with the OB now too. So exciting!!
I look at your ticker & I cant beleive you have 88 days to go. OMG.
~~** 9 w 5 d **~~
God Storm now that your've pointed it out IM poohing myself. AAAAHAHAHAHHA. I cant believe how quick this pg is going now. I had my glucose test yesterday. The lady taking the blood was worried cause she said I was as white as a ghost. I ended up holding that horrible **** down until I reached the car park. I was sick all day from it and Ive got the worst headache today.
So enough about me, when is your ob appointment mate? I cant believe your nine weeks already. Has the ms settled down?
Im going to wash my baby capsule and put it in the car already. I know its early but I have to get Wilhelm use to it before the baby comes. He'll freak other wise. He now points to my belly and says' My baby sister Vyolett'. HIs speach therapist is wrapped that he's taken so well (so far) to the whole baby thing.
Better go and check in the september forum and then get dressed not that I really want to today. Im taking B! and B2 to the movies tomorrow to watch the new car movie. School holidays has just started here and Im going to make sure the kids have some fun because next school holidays I wont be able to do ****.
Chat soon mate
xxmaz
Gross I hate the GTT glad you made it back to the car!!
Hope Wihelm adjusts to the capsule, although you boys sound pretty keen to have their sister come in to the world!!I dont think you'll have a prob!!
My app is on 3rd July, I'll be 12 weeks then & that's cool.
School holidays start then too, for us! Wonder what I am going to do??? I will most likely go & see my mum, she lives in Stockinbingal, about 5 hrs drive, but I dunno, it all depends on how I feel, M/S seems to be fading somewhat, although the other night I had a chuck ( first 1 for any pregs) a bit scared of driving all that way & being sick........
Dh is at golf & I am very tired, I've done no housework again, man I just cant get it together to do any, everybody should just stop making mess or start cleaning up after themselves, or...... I shouldn't be so lazy....................
10 weeks tomorrow...
How are things going Maz??
I have a terrible cold, as does Zac & Dylan. Wonderful!!
10 weeks & 2 days....
OH Storm you poor bugger. I could just give you a big sloppy one mate and hope you get better.
Have finally finished (well almost) Vyolett's room. We just have to put the shelves in the built in wardrobe and the door for it and room. I hung the curtains today while Jeds at work. He'll go off for me doing stuff but f**k him, im so sick of just sitting. I have to put some pics up soon.
You take care of yourself and number 5 alive.
xxmaz
Woo hoo Maz, thats great news on Vyolett's room! Cant wait to see it.
HELLOO OO OO OO OO
Hope you are well Maz & not doing anymore damage to yourself mate.
I sorry Storm, Ive been so flat out (again) its not funny.
I was as sick as a dog yesterday, god I haven't even had time to go into my personal forum. ****!
Vyolett has been laying in my back really bad so its been killing me.
Hope you are well and I promise I'll ge ton soon (Im hating school holiday's at the moment AHHHHHHH)
xxmaz
Hi, I'm new in here. I had my tube's done when my son was 10 month's old, he's now 6. My hubby say's no to anothere baby, we have 2 girl 11 boy 6. I thought I was done, but when he turned 2, there was this empty feeling, and I'm just not done having my kid's. I'm looking into tubal reversal, but I know hubby won't let me get it done.. If anyone with info please help..
Hi rttj2000
Welcome! We know exactly how you feel.
Which state are you in?
I had my reversal in october last year and here I am now with only 11 weeks to go :eek: and Ive got that old familiar poohing my self feeling coming again. Nah only joking!!!!
I woke up from surgery knowing I had made the wrong decision. It took my hubby 2 years to come around (and 3 pregnancies whilst my tubes were clamped) Now he's as happy as can be as we're expecting a daugther after 2 boys. I know now that im going to be pulling my hair out but I dont care.
Its taken me a long time to get to come around and actually comprehend that im pregnant again. Ive spoken to a few ladies around here locally and they said they all had the same feeling.
Just let us know what youl'd like to know and Im sure Storm or I can fill you in as best we can. Their's also another lady called Sushi who recently had a little boy thorugh IVF after an unsuccessful reversal, so its not really guaranteed.
Take care and good luck
xxMaz
Hi rttj2000! Welcome to BB!
Ditto to what Maz said I reckon.
I had my TR in Nov 2003, since I have had my little guy, Zac who is 10 1/2 months old & am pregnant with number 5! The best way i think to get your research for a TR would be to google it. Let us know where abouts you are & we maybe able to recommend somebody. Goodluck.
HI Maz, who's the slack one now eh? Sorry. I've been flat out trying to find info on a homebirth, determined to do it , with or without a midwife:eek: just hope the baby is willing & no suprises like with Zaccie's SUA. M/S easing now, but this darn flu, all I do now is cough & gag, then spew coz I gagged! What a vicious cycle I'm in. Zac has a cold, which has lead back to his asthma,& a very snotty baby!
How's the reno's coming along? You must be so flat out.Hope your mamaging to take it easy too. Hey, we are opposite, you are 29 weeks & I have 29 weeks to go. COOL. ooer that means you only have 11 weeks left to meet Miss Vyolett, crikey!!
OK best go before I cough my germs all over ya!!:rolleyes:
I have to have a c/s this time again as my scaring is to damaged. I really tried to get them to swing my way for a natural and my ob laughed at me...BAST*RD!!! nah he's pretty cool. So i've technically got either 9 or 10 weeks to go. Ive put new pics on Vyolett's site of her room. Ive started calling her a diva as when I eat a little chocolate and stop she kicks the crap out of me until I eat some more. Ah she must take after me....Im so screwed (lol)
And how about you you poor bugger. You haven't had it wasy yet have ya. HOpe that Zac is starting to get a little better. Im surprised i dont have a cold or anything with the -5 and -6 over nighter's we've had this way.
Good one you too for wanting to go and have a home birth. My mum had one of my brothers and sister at home and she said it was the best experience. I would love to do that and have Nikolaus be there. He's so switched on the little man. I cant believe my baby is 6 in a week. It just wants to make me cry. He knows were the baby is coming from (my tummy) as my 'front bum' is broken. He told me I should get dad to fix it as he's a builder and he can fix anything. HA HA HA. I cried so much that night. I really have to jot that down in my pregnancy journal before I forget again.
TAke care lovie and get better or I'll have to come up there
xxmaz
Hi, thanks all for the welcome. I would love to have the reversal done, but hubby say's no. I don't think I will ever be able to change his mind. He's stubbern. We have a daughter she's 11 her name is Tayla, and a son Jared he's 6.We've been married for 7 year's, been together for 14 year's yesturday, my birthday..I have heard about the women's hospital in melbourne doing 2 a month for free. Told hubby but he just laughed. How could I ever get him to change his mind. I started working last year for the first time in ten year's, now I have a part time job more money my chance is fading really fast.. Just turned 33.
rttj2000 - I just got my tubes done at the Royal womens in melbourne. I waited a total of 10 months. I got a referal from my doctor and I had my first appointment within 2 months there. (in april) then I had to go and fill in the paper work in september and had my op done in the 4th of october. I didn't pay a cent mate and I was there for 5 days. All the doctors and nurses were fantastic too. they told me at the hospital they do atleast 4 a week there.
My hubby didn't want any more kids after we found out my youngest has autism so i got them clamped when he has 18 months. I woke up knowing i wasnt 'complete'. I cried and cired and my hubby admitted we may have been to hasty. I also fell pregnant 3 times with them clamped. I remember the first time. My best friend came with me casuet he dcotor thought I might have had a tumor in my cervices because of the hard 'lump' we could feel externatlly. I didn't think I could possible be pregnant. He sent me for an ultra sound and they lady said, wow congrat's your 7 weeks pregnant. My best friend and I just started crying. The poor ultra sound lady I had to explain that I'd had my tubes done. She ended up crying with us. I misscarried at 9 weeks. I will never forget it though.
Im wishing you luck, and never stop pushing. If you dont feel complete, let him know.
xxmaz
Hi MAZ, I have told my hubby how I feel, but he will not give in. I started working last year, the first time in 10 year's, with me working now there is no way he will let me get it done, even if it means I can get it done for free. I work at a hospital, started there on the 19th jan 2005, and now I got a per part time job there, in school hour's and 5 days a week. So there is no way he'll let me have another baby.I have told him, if he lets me have another baby, I will go back to work for 3 days a week when the baby is 6 months. I can't talk to him about it, cause he just cracks all the time... I don't know what to do.. I really want to have another baby, and it's killing me knowing its not going to happen...
Darlin, I hear you.
My hubby won't budge either.
He says it is too dangerous. I am feeling angry that we feel we HAVE to ask permission to have something done to OUR bodies!
GRRRRR