hey em....i couldn't believe it when he after 5 years said NO and all this bull$hit.....he dragged it out to the point where he realised because i dais i was going to Westmead that he wouldn't do it anymore...... they are with qld fertility up in toowoomba.....they do both TR and IVF, but i have already gone to them, and i know they wont look at me because once again it came down to #1 age (at this stage i was only 34) and #2 because they didn't want to deal with my endo.....buggers.....at least i know westmead are happy to take me only......i even cried earlier on, because i was so devastated......i know what you mean about either hearing about all these BFP or physically seeing these big preg women.....laidley these days i so full of them and it is now longer a sleepy country town, but a booming metropolis....kiya