Dearmum..... I have to wait to get in to see my fs. So im seeing him on 29th April, I so hate waiting. Im pretty sure my period will be due a week or two after seeing him so the first part of May will be our first fet. Thanks for the lovely comment about my kids that really lovely.xx
Katt sorry to hear all isn't going to plan hopefully you can get it all cleared up soon.
Storm Noah is so cute. I hope he's being kind to his mummy!
Take it easy girls xx
Well my bleeding stopped over night thankgodness!
I have worked it out that i have had a bleed every week now but my last was the longest 3 days hmmm im going to watch out for next week,strange hey.
This morning i woke up to pins and needle pains in my belly im thinking maybe its due to lying on my belly at night.Ahhh the dramas of pregnancy.
Hi Katt....Sorry to hear things arent looking to good i hope it clears up for you soon on its own.
Hi Mumof6....Hmmm ok i can wait until Mayits going to be a long wait for both of us.Will you be transfering 2?
lets hope this post gets through....i have sent 2 others off now and none of them have come through.
dearmum.....i agree the dramas of being preg.....i hope all the bleeding settles down for you.
as for me, at the moment we are waiting until after next month to start looking at doing the IVF. my son goes to see his neurosurgeon and we find out what is happening with his tumor and bleeds.
Dearmum.... DF wants 2 put back but im in 2 minds about the hole thing.
Bl00dy women, we think to much is all it comes down to.. Alot to think about really but im just going with the flow at the moment. Now you take it bl00dy easy for gods sake I don't want to hear anymore bad news this year from anyone.xxx
hi mumofsix, dearmum, kiya and everyone else, how are you all?
great to hear your bleeding stopped dearmum hopefully nextweek will be less eventful and they will settle down for you.
well as for me went and had a scan done all they are saying is that its definatley the right ovary yet they dont know why, n its 1 cm bigger but everything is normal so who knows. the doc seems to think its cause im ovulating but im thinking if its doing that now ivf should be fun i havent slept in days its that bad.
Hi Mumof6......Now now come on you know down the track you will want twins go with the flo and let your DF get his wayhehe geez your only got 6.Hmmm dunno about the lounge it drives me nuts any longer than a hr.Huh today i came home from shopping totally stuffed couldnt be bothered going to the drs and fell asleep for 2hrs to be woken by my eldest DD saying that im lazy and whats for dinner GRRR i told her S**T your 18 and gettn married soon cook your own dinner for a change.God they make ya mad coz everytime i fall to sleep i always have to get woken up.
Hi Kiya.....Wow did i miss a post or something i didnt know your son is suffering from a head bleed/tumorgosh i would be leaving having another one also.Babe one thing at a time you have had a very bad run
Hi Katt...ouch i hope it does do this with you during IVF,will you still be able to go ahead with IVF?
God I love you girls AND i LOVE logging in everyday to hear all the new goss, its just so positive in here at the moment and everyone is moving forward its great girls.
Dearmum.....There are so many wat ifs with Ivf. Wat if they both take wat if they don't make the thraw wat will people think wat will i do and will i cope wat about my beautiful children will they miss out and wat if i can't give them the time and love they all deserve wat if it put even more pressure on my relationship cause times do get abit hairy with the kids and we don't get any us time now wat if i don't get my so longed for twins will i be disapointed, should i do this or should i just be happy with wat i have wat if wat if wat if. Im so scared making this next step but excited and worried but over joyed at the thought of a new bundle of joy. I have 6 beautiful children and they are my world and they make me who i am but there is already 6 and 8 seems like a huge number and to much. Im just a mixed bag of emotions at the moment. But these are all my honest feelings and thoughts at the moment. Im just confussed right now.
Mumof6....Yeh i know how your feeling,thats IVF for ya hey.
How many frozen bubs do you have left?
Look at me it took 3 x with frozen to get a positive and that certainly plays on ya mind getting a BFN,but i reckon i did the best thing by continuing coz i cant stand the idea of having our bubs in the freezer now i have nothing left and now i will stop.
just go with what your heart thinks at the time,for me i have always dreamed of having twins so getting my doc to agree on transfering 2 was the hardest part for me but if i had of transfered to before what if i lost 2 hmmm its one of those questions hey nothing is guaranteed.
Dear Mum : YEAH YEAH YEAH FOR YOU!!!!!!.
WEll girls I have been away on a woirking holiday ( mjind you trhere was no holiday that came with it .
And Yes AF arrived on the day afgter we got there. I am now on cycle day 6 and started my clomid yesterday. So hears hoping....If no baby this cycle then DH and I have agreed to IVF..... Was reading the clomid increases the risk of eptopic so now I am truly worried .......already have higher chances with the TR of that!!!. My temp chart is now stuffed I think as the airline lost our baggage we had a call last night and we hope it should be here by tomorrow.
Be back later....
Em
Dearmum....we have 4 bubs, day six blasties in the freezer. The first fet transfer will be natural so no drugs but if that doesnt work the next one will be with the crinone they told me. After lossing a twin last time i think thats wat really gives me the drive to wat another and to want twins cause i felt robbed in a way. I never wanted twins but its not until you loss something that you realise. I would do this in a heart beat cause i want this so much but then I have to look at the hole family and not just be selfish. But in saying everything ive said if it doesnt work i dont think i'll be disapointed.
Mrzbaby I wish you the best of luck this cycle. If not you will have to jump on the IVF express with us hehe. Good luck darl
dearmum.....2 years ago he was found to have a brain tumor....it was only found because he woke up one morning screaming and crying in pain with a massive headache....he never had headaches before then.....then last year in between may and November they found that he had bled twice in his brain.....so now he also has brain aneurysms on top of that....he goes back to see his neurosurgeon next month and have another MRI....if they find evidence of another bleed/s they are going to operate then start chemo for the tumor....the tumor is right next to the optic nerves etc in the penial gland, so that also posses another problem as well because if they even just gently touch the optic nerve he will go blind.....he is still my 15 year teenager and still does all his crazy things and hangs out with the mates and gets up to no good at the skate park.....we haven't stopped him from having a normal life.....he has a great group of friends who look after him, but they like him and us are also afraid about next month because he has had headaches in the past 6 months......i know i will have my baby, just a matter of getting all this over and done with and getting back to some normality in my life.....cheers kiya
oh hun this one is just for you ..
you do what you feel is best for you ,you are a wonderful mum to thoses kids of yours and if you feel you want to go again GO FOR IT HUN..YOU CAN DO IT LOL...
you are my little insperation with this ivf stuff you are proof that this can work for all of us .
i say good luk at your fs at the end of this month and if you go ahaead i look foward to being your fet buddy hun i cant wait
im heree any time if you need to chat ok
love smithy xxoo
hi everyone how are you goin? what are your plans for easter? I'm working so im not going anywhere.
As for me doing ivf dearmum im not sure hopefully the gyno i see on the 23rd will be able to give me some answers i cant see why not the doc said everything is fine just my ovaries are out further then there meant to be and the right one is larger so hopefully we will still be able to do it.
Hi Ladies....Hope your all enjoying your long weekend and end of school holidays YEEHAH i know i am already hehe.Anyone going away for easter? well i was thinking about it but the more i think the lazier im getting....lol,we are VERY last minute people so will see what happens.
Ladies i will be 8 weeks on Monday yeh it sure is dragging out hey.I was thinking i might post a belly shot each month so you can see me gettn huge hehe,what do ya all reckon?
Hi Mumof6.....Nah im not on the lounge im back to normal now and enjoying it hehe.
Im still on Pessaries and when i had that scare i used extra just to be sure i wont m/c but im going to stop the pessaries once im 12 weeks.Yayyy i have another scan at 9 weeks so thats next Friday cant wait to see if there still alive and if theres still 2 in there.Babe with 4 frozen that should give you a good chance at having another one,will you be transfering 2 on your first attempt?i had natural FETs.I think its better coz if one doesnt work you can straight away go onto another cycle,and you cant stuff up your system coz your not using any drugs.
Hi Kiya.....Oooh thats a real worry for your son hey,i would be so scared if it was my son.Its just so sad when things like this happen to such young kids hey.Just take it step by step thats all you can do HUGSSSS.Babe you can still have babies into your 40s so dont worry whats more important is getting the ones you have healthy first.
Babe how that B***arch has she left you guys alone now?
Hi Katt....No i think everything will work out just fine,so it looks like a 2010 baby coming your way huh,hmmm maybe you and Mumof6 will get pregnant around the same time.
Hi Mrzbaby....Oh so glad to hear your moving on i hope the clomid does the trick for you hey.Its good to hear you will attempt IVF coz it saves alot of time and with your history of having kids it should work first pop for ya.Wow there could be 4 of us pregnant this yr!
How is everyone else?
Last edited by dearmum; April 10th, 2009 at 10:13 AM.
Hi Everyone,
Well saw my Doc yesterday and he is hopefully going to think along the same lines as me and that is 2 cycles of clomid 50mg and then onto IVF.
DH and I are thinking to go with Westmead. I have looked into it and it seems a lot cheaper ( we have spent a huge amount on the tubal reversal and now to have to go down the IVF road when we could have done that first so the cost aspect is certainly something we need to look at.)
I am still nervous about the ectopic preg as Clomid increase the risk and so does the TR , especially since it is approaching 1 yr anniversary mark and the scarring (if any) would most likely be building up by now. I just want a take home forever baby...... you know healthy mum, healthy bub.... not much really is it??
Have a great easter everyone...
Dearmum I am just so excited for you...I have god twins and they are just beautiful... actually i am going to go over now have a huge hug with them and a chat with my BF...
EM....
Registered User
Well my bleeding stopped over night thankgodness!
its going to be a long wait for both of us.Will you be transfering 2?
hehe geez your only got 6.Hmmm dunno about the lounge it drives me nuts any longer than a hr.Huh today i came home from shopping totally stuffed couldnt be bothered going to the drs and fell asleep for 2hrs to be woken by my eldest DD saying that im lazy and whats for dinner GRRR i told her S**T your 18 and gettn married soon cook your own dinner for a change.God they make ya mad coz everytime i fall to sleep i always have to get woken up.
gosh i would be leaving having another one also.Babe one thing at a time you have had a very bad run
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. If not you will have to jump on the IVF express with us hehe. Good luck darl
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