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:dance:Ladies my levels were at 2548 @18dpo yep im happy with that funny i keep thinking the worst like its going to go down instead,it seemed all to easy thats why.
I just cant wait to get in and have my scan,and i just cant wait to find out what it is :p
Hi Mumof6....Your DH is funny i cant believe he wants more kids hey,my hubby is excited about my pregnancy he keeps telling me take it easy.Babe when you was on pessaries did they make you feel warm?because i dont remember feeling like this with my other kids.
Sorry but how long in the pregnancy did you lose the twin?Did you feel anything when you lost it?Yeh im kind of woried about the whole twin pregnany,because i lost Shaheed at 5 months and i was reading about with twin pregnancies your more likely to go into pre term labour scary i reckon.
Hi Kiya....Hows things at home?
Hi to all you lovely ladies sorry i havent been on the net much lately its because i have guests from Malaysia staying with us for 10nights huh i cant wait for them to leave because i miss my freedom.
Well i better go i can hear there making there own breaky oops.
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sorry girls for not being on. we have had some dramas at home. DH had an accident and hit his head hard. as quick as he stood up he collapsed to the floor and he was having a seizure. he kept going in and out of consciousness even when the ambo's where here. they put him on ECG and saw that he was struggling for air and heart rate was going up and down. had to go on oxygen to regulate. he is now home, but he is resting as has swelling at back of head and thinks he may have a brain bleed. keep you all posted on what is happening...kiya
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kiya, I am so sorry to hear about your dh.... just a caution.... make sure they scan his head good and proper....
dearmum, so so so so so so so happy for you... i am happy to hear your levels are so high!can't wait for your scan!
em, bummed about af.. i know what you mean about that 36 day cycle, mine is usually a 32 day cycle now and it used to be 28 on the dot before the stupid ligation
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Sorry I have also been MIA. I have been very busy with studies with my work and I am nearly at the end of it.
Congrats Storm on the birth of Noah.
Congrats Dearmum on your pregnancy. It looks like there is more than one in there with the number you are getting.
Mumofsix, I hope that everything goes well for you with IVF.
Kiya, I hope that hubby is alright.
Sorry if I have missed anyone as I am in the middle of studying and I have to get back as I have to pass this time as stuffed it up the last time.
I am look at getting the reversal mid this year and letting nature take its course for about a year or two then if it does not work then I will go and get IVF.
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Dearmum...Mmmm awesome levels there i must say. Best you start looking in two's hehe. I was 8 week when I found out our little one didn't make it, Its ok to ask darl I know your mind is probably going a 1000 to 1 at the moment with all the emotions.
I do remember on the morning I went in for that dreaded scan that my hands and feet were quiet swollen. I always seemed to have this full feeling in my tummy. I had no idea I had lost one. Well really I didnt loss anything cause the baby was still there till about 26wks. They said my body would reabsorb it but it didnt,after the 26wk mark they couldnt see it anymore cause BREAH was getting to big. They do say alot about going into labour early but in saying that alot go to 40wks aswell. Its only cause theres two babies in there and your body saysok Im done cause it thinks its reached that 40wk mark. Im sure you will be fine if it does turn out to be twins.
Crazymum long time no chat glad to here that another baby is still on the cards. Good luck with that test. Oneday we will chat up for that long awaited coffee.
Me.....well all I have been thinking about these days is having another baby and if its the right thing to do. I know this might sound stupid but I to still long to have twins. I felt so robbed when we lost one cause everytime I see Breah and all her milestones I keep thinking I should be seeing this twice not once. But then I come back to the real world and think can I handle having twins I still have a very young family and Breah is still a baby. Then I think well what if I dont get twins will I be disappointed once again. I know I should be greatful for what I get but I cant stop thinking this way. Then i think about the other kids and if i was to have twins would I still have enough time for each of them. I dont want anyone to go without cause Im being selfish.
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Oh Kya im so sorry about DH I HOPE HES ok. Breah turned on the capslock sorry.
take care
xxx
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Kiya: I hope your DH recovers quickly and glad the B@#$! is staying away.
Dear Mum: Great numbers if I do say!!! lol Twin prams we just bought a Kia Grand Carnival!!!hmmm yeah a bus! DH wants another before his birthday next year... NO pressure on me at the moment;)
when I had my reversal I for some reason kept thinking kept feeling twins. When I saw just our georgous one I soon got over it. But I have since been going back to my thoughts on twins agin.. :dunno: crazy hormones have a lot to answer for.
Crazymum2 : Apparently you need to concieve within 12 months of the reversal and as I have just found out it has to be a forever baby too. I thought it was just to make sure the reversal worked but my specialist ( not one who did op but his best mate who also does them ( ie my ob) said it has to be a viable pregnancy ( I hate that word!!) within 12months.) I had mine done in August last year and am now looking down the gauntlet so to speak.
luv children: You will see a bubba hun try to be positive.
AFM: Can I ask as it looks as though I will be going down the IVF road. Did you IVF ladies do IVF after the reversal because of not having a preg / forever baby in the 12mths after the reversal? Sorry I don't want to upset anyone but I would like to see if IVF would be better for me Now not in 12mths time...Thanks?
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Hi Mrzbaby. thanks for your kind words. Sadly DH maybe taking a turn for the worst. He has spent all this afternoon between GP and Hospital. He was driven home from work because he was getting dizzy spells and this i what they said to look out for. Tomorrow he is getting a CT scan....as for IVF, i am going down this road, because it would pointless on me getting a TR because of both my endometroisis and so much dammage from flishie clips and endo....I am having an IVF/ICSI split because of my age. I'm not a spring chook anymore....good look with your jounrey which ever way you go....kiya
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Mrzbaby... I had been trying for about 12mths after my T/R to fall pregnant with no luck. So we dicided to go down the IVF path which is what we should have done in the first place. Where in NSW are you??? Here's a good IVF site to have a look into WestMead Fertility Centre
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Oh how rude I got booted.
Mrzbaby We got a 2007 Grand Carnival at Christmas time aswell I just love it
Hope hubby will be ok Kiya
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mrzbaby, thanks so much for the kind words. I had my reversal and have been hoping and praying for 2.5 years. I have had 3 ectopic pregnancies in that time each about 6 months apart or so. The first one was removed with surgery, but my tube was not touched because it was on the outer frimbrae which meant the swimmers swam but the egg couldn't get back down. The other two have disappeared by themselves. i did start the ivf track, and even went to sydney, but unfortunately i was experiencing the ectopic when i was supposed to af to start ivf. I also have fibroid which doesn't help. Istill wanted the reversal for more than just having another baby. I had terrible periods and pains which i never experienced before the horrid ligation. I hope that one day, they become outlawed. other girls in here have fallen ok after a reversal and it really depends on the length of the tube and how much damage there is, that is why they normally do endo first to have a look. hope this helps!
kiya, hope your hubby gets better.
em, i know what you say about the twin thing... I would have really liked that too... don't get so down on yourself... I hope they let you put two back this time...
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Thanks so much girls for you IVF help. My doc wants me to have 3 rounds of Clomid first then we go to IVF.
Mum of Six :As for the Kia Grand Carnial well I signed the papers yesterday its a New 2007build but 2009 compliance ( if that makes sense :dunno:, so we will have it by Friday I guess. WE have a 7 seater Santa fe but when we found out about our angel bub we trialled it with a baby seat and found we couldn't fit 4 kids and a pram into it so DH is forward planning on this one..hehe.
Kiya: Oh hun you have been through so much... stay strong I am thinking of you and your DH hun ( and your children as well they would be going through so many emotions right now)
Luv children : I too think they should be band. After my ligation after my 3rd DD I had weight gain ( I lost it all with the other kids ) my period was everywhere, cramps, headaches all the time, bloating I felt horrible I interesting enough googled my symptoms ( if you have any form of anxiety don't do this it will drive you crazy !!!) and they all kept coming up from TL symptoms. I told DH when he bought up having the reversal that I had been thinking if it for a while but to have my body 'back' to too speak. I just didn't feel I was me anymore. SO Hun I completely understand how you are feeling.
Mum of six: I am going to take a look at the website now. My OB is part of Sydney IVF so I think I can get it on the mid north coast. Does it cost the same as in westmead.. I am going to look at the site. It is a lot of money as the reversal set us back $7,400 but we got a very small amount back from medicare. I would like to just go straight to IVF personally buyt you do what the doc says...
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Mrzbaby....darl do what your heart tells you not what the doctors say. In my mind IVF is the safest way with higher chances and less risks. Sydney IVF is pretty expensive from what ive heard form another friend on here. Westmead is $1,450 from start to finish including all the drugs scans blood work and egg pick up and transfer. It also includes the first 2 years of embryo storage fees thats if you get any left over. I think you get about $348 back from medicare out of that when your cycle is completed. When you get your new car let me know what its like on fuel and how many Kms you get out of a tank. I'd be interested in knowing............
Hey LUV :pray: for you my sweet
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Hi ladies, I've got no idea what is going on atm, but I will catch up.
I've had no net, stupid modem.....
Thank you for all the congrats. All is going well with Noah, he is a great little feeder, & just simply divine.he he
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hi girls...just updating on dh.....he had a CT scan yesterday....now we just have to wait and see what happens.....he has gone back to work and since he works in front of computers all day as IT support specialist, then he should be ok then....kiya
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Storm... thats awesome so glad all is going well for you both.
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Hi Ladies;)....Well i have had a few dramas since my last post,i had a scare i started bleeding so i thought oh S**T now what....so i quickly went down to the hospital and had to wait B*****Y 4hrs for a doc just to be asked some Stupid questions GRRR anyway it was about 530pm when i got there so i asked for a scan i really wanted to see the sac atleast but they said the scans close at 6 so basicly i wasted my time going in really,anyway the next day i went into my FS clinic and complained about the same thing hoping they would give me a scan but the nurse said look its very normal for someone on Pessaries to have a bleed because sometimes they can burst a blood vessel :rolleyes:so i got peace of mind but dam i didnt get to see my bub hehe i was hoping i would coz i wana know if theres one or two.:p
Yesterday my levels were at 12570 and i was 22dpo or 5.2 weeks my scan is on the 3rd of April :leap:
Hi Mumof6....Hehe you make me laugh i would be feeling just like that but knowing me i would just go for it in wanting twins,you can handle it and besides you have alot of help at home.Yay i cant wait for you to get started.
Hi Kiya.....Babe im really really sorry your DH is going through this you guys have been through enough S**T and this just tops it off hey:hug:i pray for a good outcome for you guys.
Hi Storm....Wow i must have missed your post because i didnt realise you gave birth already.....Congrats he looks perfect oh i cant wait for mine.
Hi Luvchildren.....Babe dont give up can you go back to IVF again?
Hi Mrzbaby....I would be going onto IVF straight away if i was you,the chances are much higher and no wasting time.I fell pregnant with the first round so im sure your chances are high also i have found alot of ladies that have had kids fall pregnant straight away with IVF because there body accepts it all.
Hi Crazymum2....Yeh i would do the same if i had time on my hands im 37 this yr and 1or2 yrs trying seems forever,but if your still fairly young why not.I guess theres pros and cons both sides.
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hi i finally made it. as i said im trying to find out info on getting my tubes put back together basically and what the success rate is when they have been cut and tied and if its possible to go thru the public hospital system in qld any advice would be helpful
