Tubal Reversals #16

Hi Ladies;)Ayyy another BT tommorro:rolleyes:its really the worst part about IVF.
Well my transfer will be happening either Tuesday or Wednesday so YAY here i go again:dance:

How is everyone?it sure is quiet in here..lol

Onemore hows your baby daughter?

Hi Kiya....Hows all the planning going your end?your hubby sounds like such a romantic..lol

Hi Storm....That belly of yours is looking sexy...hehe
Is bub moving alot?

Hi Mumof6....Hmmm when can expect bub 7?hehe
You must be glad da kids are back at school huh.

Hi to everyone....hope your all had a good day.

Wow that seems to have come around very quick Jodie. Hope you have better luck this time-xx-

Yep baby is very active!! I have been loosing bits of my plug over the past week & last OB visit, he said that bub's was so low he could barely feel his head. YIKES. He has moved agin now though, **PHEW** I was begining to worry a bit.
I just cant wait for this stinking heat wave to go, it's been over 40 here now for 10 days & I have had enough of it.


Hope everybody is well.

One more, how's the new little princess going?

Hey Jodes....everything is at a stand still atm......dh's ex is once again at it again.....someone should slap her around with a wet trout.....LOL sorry girls old mIRC days.....dh has decided that he has had enough and now has taken legal advice against her as she is now making all of these ridiculous claims and it is all targeted against me.....poor baby, she can't deal with the fact that i ended up with him and he told her to ^%$# off ...... i will get back to all the planning once i know that things have settled down again.....hey wishing you heaps of luck for next week.....it will work like i said it will......hey onemore......hope you are enjoying that little bundle of yours and so can't wait to hear it all went and to see all of those wonderful pictures ......storm, not long now and it will be your turn......emm.....so when you goign to plan for that wonderful #7 bubba ??? ..... well all going well in a few months i will be on that journey as well.....hugs to all....kiya

Dramas Dramas God Dame!

Hi girls well today is my first day with just me and Breah and im loving it. Been so hot here too but the aircon is doing wonders. Off to Physo tonight my back is killing me every morning about 1am so im over it. DS#3 Had his first day at school on monday and he really loves it, yay for me hehe!
Storm where are you living now??

Hi Ladies:)Well i have the all clear to do my transfer on Tuesday YEPEEE!not sure on what time yet but its all the go for Tuesday.I have been keeping my brain busy with all the wedding arrangements so im sure time will fly by so quick.

Hi Kiya.....Oh to hell with her,dont let her waste you guys money just ignore her thats proberly the best way for these types of people.HUGS.

Hi Mumof6.....Oh it would of felt so quiet in your house with all the kids at school huh.Enjoy Breah while you can as they grow up so quick hey and before you know it there getting married boohoo.

Hi Storm......Shoot i hope the weather calms down for you guys,we have been having 30s so yeh still hot but not humid.Wow that must have been a bit of a scare knowing bub is right down,glad to hear it has moved again.Wow not long until its your turn hey.

Well guys im off to cook dinner and put my feet up lol.

hello everybody :) well my husband and i have decided to go down the ivf road aswell so now i have to find a place that will do it up here? any suggestions and one more congratulations can't wait to see some pics and storm congrats to you as well not long now a big hello to everyone else. well i'm off to make some muffins for my kids for school.

Hey Mrs J.....where you been hiding girl ?? I think Monash IVF have a branch in Ipswich. It is one of their magnet branches, but you go for your first appointment down at Sunnybank.....They cost from memory (last year) $6,500, but that also does not include your hospital stay as they do egg pick up and transfer under a general....then you have anesthetist fees as well, and the first appoint fee and not sure if that includes v/s or not....I think it is Qld Fertility and i'm not sure, but i think they also have a branch in Ipswich....I know they have one in Toowoomba as the one in Toowoomba also does TR, for the same amount....$6,500 or maybe a little more or less.... They do it at St Andrews Private Hospital in Toowoomba....you have to pay $267 at your first appointment and this also includes your u/s.....like Monash you have to pay for hospital and knock out guy...LOL with both of those you will get most of it back, but they charge more and want it up front before you start.....also if you need other drugs for your stim cycle, you also have to pay for them yourself they are not covered....Westmead....we all know about them thanks to Mumof6, and how good they are, and they are a lot cheaper by far even after including air fares and accomodation....the longest time you would be down there is for egg pick up and transfer and like they said to me they like you to be down there for about 5-7 days to be sure....plenty of cheap motels down there......there is also another IVF clinic and they are in Brisvegas, but i can't remember their name, but they are from memory a little higher in price......i hope i have covered it all.....cheers kiya

Hi Jodes.....we have all had enough of her BS....she even had her daughter send a nasty hurtful email to my 13yo daughter.....it was aweful and she was in tears for hours.....like they say, "karma is a *****, and one day karma is going to bite her on the ar$e hard"....lol.....i'm so happy for you....next Tuesday....woohoo......i will have everything crossed for you and i know this time it will work :-) cheers kiya

God only knows how she would get you daughters email unless it was given to her, but if she is sending things thru the net I would be showing the police.
If you keep putting your plans in life on hold because of the things this woman is doing then she has WON hasnt she. So just forget her, the more you pay attention to her the more she will be in your lives forever. Life is so so short so do your IVF get remarried do what ever and live life as you wish to live it!!!!!
Take care girlsXXXX

thanks emm.....i feel heaps better now....**hugs**

apparently she got my daughter's email off her facebook, but now my daughter has blocked her.....there whole family is so mega twisted

yes i am now goign to my plans for my IVF and getting remarried again....WOOHOO

cheers kiya

;)God dame thank god for that im glad it all made sence. Just keep your binkers on;) hehe that way you will stay on the task in front of you!!!
Now i want to hear some good news soooon!!!! :hugs:

Hi Mumof6:lol:You really do put it right...lol

Hi Kiya.....Babe i really feel for you coz its just not fair whats shes doing,but what mumof6 said is so true the more you take notice of her and her crazyness she will know that she is winning just simply ignore her and her daughter,they will feel more mad that way and just give in.Babe i really hope your Doc can do something to help with your bleeding coz thats so draining,and cant be healthy for you.Take care we all hope to hear some good news from you.....HUGS

i am so happy....i am so happy....she has been told by our solicitor to leave us alone as we want nothing to do with them....WOOHOO

saw my GP this morning again, and he has sent a letter off to my endo specialist to see if he can find out why i am bleeding every 2 weeks...he will be able to work it out better than my GP can.

cheers kiya

Hi Ladies, well after posting that i was so happy, this afternoon after spending the day with my in-laws which was absolutely wonderful, i came home to some very bad news....remember last year how i mentioned my dad had a kidney removed because of cancer, well he has just found out that he now has another form of cancer and it is in his left lung, also under his ribs and also in a lymph node....he goes back to the oncology department at the Toowoomba hospital on the 17th Feb to find out how they are going to treat this.....i have been in tears all afternoon since finding out....i'm not ready to lose my dad yet.....keep him in your thoughts and prayers.....cheers nikki (kiya)

Oh no Nikki!! I'm sending all my love & prayers your way.

Sorry I haven't been on lately, it's just way too hot. I have heat rash on my bump & BB's, not nice. We are meant to be getting a cool change soon, I can't wait.

:hug:Oh Kiya....I will do extra prayers for your dad ok:hug:Its a sad thought losing your dad,i really dont know how im going to handle it when my time comes.I pray the doctors can help him some way.
Im happy to hear you had some good news,life is really full of ups and downs hey.
Keep us posted on how your dad progresses.....HUGS XX

Thanks Dearmum and Storm.....the 17th can't come quick enough....i know how i was last year when he had his kidney removed because of cancer, this time around is a whole new ball game and a different kind of cancer.....just have to be strong for both him and mum and be there for them both....kiya

Hi girls just checking in.
Sorry you have more bad new Kiya

Good Luck Dearmum:pray:. This is the one :hug: xxxxxx

Good luck Jodie with the FET.....this one will be a keeper for sure :-) Kiya

Hi Girls, Just checking in to see how Dearmum went today.

How is everyone else going ?

I'm still plodding along only just though. Not sleeping much for everytime i close my eyes i think of my dad, so i sit up and the computer or just curled up on the lounge. We find out next week what form of treatment he is having.

Take care everyone and hope you are all doing well. Kiya

hey kiya, so sorry for your bad news... i hope that he gets better.
hey jodes, hope everything went well for you.... praying for you.
em, how ya been? well i am moving.. how terrible it is. but it will be worth it cause i am moving to a house that will cost me half of what i am paying now... it will be good when i get there but its hard to get there cause its just me and the elder kids doing the actual physical move. i cant afford removalists... oh have anyone to ask to help. I am blessed that my pastor is paying for a skip to clean up this house but today was really hard because it was 96% humidity and stinkin hot. we are also supposed to be getting more rain.like we need more water.... its you guys down south that need it.
hey storm hows that round belly?

Hi Ladies:dance:Hehe well im happy:Dmy bub is finally in and hopefully in to stay.
Anyway my doc said it will take 3 days for he/she to stick and then hopefully he/she holds on for her/he life.
Ok a update on my DDs wedding...we finally found a nice venue so its all booked,we now just need to organise the dress and thats happening next Friday as we will be using a tradition Malay lady that hires out Malay outfits and gowns so i cant wait to see how it all looks on her and him.

Hi Kiya....Babe im so sorry your going through hell,your dad is in my prayers:hug:

Hi Luvchildren....Oh your shifting Yuk with this heat you poor thing,i hope you can get as much help as possible.We have been having very hot days like 40 degrees i just need a aircon.GRRR

Hi Mumof6....Babe hows your little Breah?is she walking yet?

Well im off to have a shower cant stand the heat!

Ok ive had enough of waiting.... Onemore where are you???? Cant wait to here all about your new little girl.....
Dearmum... She has been walking since christmas but only around the furniture.
Good luck with the move Luvxxx :hug:

Hi everyone, so sorry I`ve left you guys hanging for so long:redface: I just havn`t had a chance to get on line.

Well our beautiful little miracle was born on Thursday 29th Jan at 1:31pm.

Maddison Tayla
7lb 15.5oz

It was just amazing, still find it hard to believe she is really here with us.
The c/s was a breeze realy, I chose the spinal block and the only side effects I had were a little nausea which was corrected quicky, a really dry mouth and throat and ice fixed that oh and while they were stiching me up I felt really tired and just wanted to go to sleep.. It did take longer to close me up though, (about an hour and fifteen mins)
apparently they had never seen anything like what was going on in there !!! they told me afterwards that it was all a huge mess, the tubes were all twisted and lots and lots of adhesions, and instead of the tubes floating around in there they were actually stuck solid to my uterus (through scaring) and they dont know how we concieved. So she really is our little miracle.

Sorry but I dont have time for personals atm but I will be back soon to catch up with you all.

Take care
xxx

Oh yay Congratulations Onemore!!!!!Well done on your new little princess-xx-

OMG you are one very lucky lady then!!

Hey Onemore so glad you jumper on for a couple of minutes.
Welcome to the internet Maddison Tayla and welcome to the world.

Hi Onemore:hug:Oh you sound so happy....and she sounds so perfect:hug:please give her a cuddle from me......XX

Hi Ladies....I have 5 long days to go ahhhh.So a little update on me again:phaving mixed feeling once again,on the days my boobs have a little tingle going through them i think Yes it must have stuck on,then i look at my boobs and think nah there not even swollen.I have been very tired but its hard to say coz im usally a tired person,i have been a mega Biarch to my kids the last few days so its either AF on its way or pregnancy hormones.Oh guess what my DD had a dream yesterday that Shaheed came alive do ya you think it could be a good sign?

Hi Kiya.....:hug:Im thinking of you and your dad everyday.I pray he gets well soon....XX

Dearmum i have goose bumps about your daughters dream. I think its a sign

OMG...Dearmum.....I think it means that you are not only preg, but you are also preg with your little angel, who has come to you.....i always believe that for every angel you lose, they come back to you once again....for every preg that i have lost i have a living child for each loss....rest up jodes......

thank-you for praying for my dad.....it is very much appreciated....he goes back to the hospital next week and we find out about what treatment they are going to put him on.


hugs
kiya

onemore, congratulations on the safe arrival. i am so happy you finally got your miracle. i bet she is gorgeous. hope you get rest and heal well.
jodes, yeh dreams can happen when your preggie.... all them hormones... :pray:
kiya, glad to hear about your dad...
em, yeh i finally moved but i am still very tired. I had to move the whole lot on my own yes... only had my kids to help... i am blessed though. the house was not far from my other house and i have had some experience moving so, apart from bein exhausted, i did it. the only yucky thing is i have to go back and clean the other house Yuck...
hey storm, how are you...

Dearmum, gee it seems to have gone so quick!! What a dream & think it's a sign too! Fingers crossed for you darl.

Thinking of you Kiya & still wishing all the very best for your Dad.

LC yikes at moving on your own. Well done!!

Hey Em!!

Going good over here Iguess, bub is engaged now, so I'm on bedrest JIC LOL, how on earth am I supposed to bed rest? I haven't even got anything ready & washed for him yet.

Hi Ladies;)Well how did your Valentines day go?
Funny my hubby is normally such a romantic every year he gets me something special.Anyway on Friday i was out with the kids buying hubby a Valentine pressie,and spending ages trying to find the right card and stuff.Well Valentine came and i was up early coz i cant sleep well lately and then hubby got up and i waited and waited and NOTHING then my DD said to me mum what did you get for Valetines?i quickly tried to change the subject anyhow hubby acts so suprised OH IS IT VALENTINES.....WTF anyone and everyone knew its Valentines day,he said simply oh no i forgot to get you something ahhhh.Hehe so i was mad and i thought nah hes not getting his pressie now,well i caved in later that day and gave him his it was a nice thoughtful card and a lotto ticket...lol
He felt so guilty....yeh so he should! well he said to me he going to quickly go and get some cat food and txt me what i want at the shop so i did anyway he came home with chocolates and a card he tried to be romantic after that but i said nah its to late but i forgave him later coz he took me out for dinner....lol
It was funny my DS bought his girlfriend a white gold love heart pendant and a cake and flowers and he knew she was coming early in the morning so he quickly wore his best suit and stood at the gate ready for when she opens up and suprised her....Ahhhh young love:)
My DD decked out her room full of romantic stuff like flower petals and stuff so when the DF came over he got a nice suprise,oh she bought him a psp game yeh hes a big kid still..lol

Ok so enough about that,guys im really starting to get mixed feeling on this one like as though it stuck on then came of coz those twingles in the boobs have gone....mmmmm
but i do feel a little warm ahhh 4 days to go! I will do a HPT on Tuesday and see how it goes.

Well i hope you all enjoy your weekend....HUGS

LOL Dearmum, you make me laugh.....I got nothing for Valentines and i gave nothing....LOL i figured i just gave DH a book and a DVD the day before for his b'day, so why the hell should i give him another pressie.....anyway i had a nice day and night as the 2 boys were over at their mates houses so it was just the girls and it was sooooooo quiet in the house, so i got sizzled on wine, ended up going to bed with the room spinning and somehow ended up the at the other end of the bed....then DH decided that when he got to bed he wanted to play, not so could when you are still slightly swizzled, the room spinning and trying to work out how you were wrong side up.....lol.....so now i am sitting here with a nice hot chocolate, DH still alseep in bed and catching up on everyone and everything since my computer got reformatted....take care everyone....cheers kiya

Hi Kiya;)You make me laugh...lol,a little to much wine huh.
Babe after posting this morning i had a total melt down,im just not getting the symtoms i want from my body,remember i said i was getting twinges and stuff every now and then well thats all stopped yesterday and my boobs dont even look pregnant i just feel so let down i really dont know how some ladies can keep going with IVF its such a hard rollercoaster ride.I have promised myself once my embies are all gone thats it with me trying but how on earth am i ever going to stop the pain and regret from having that TL.Babe do you know if medicare now covers TR?if so then i might just go down that track because i hate the idea that a clip is on the tubes.After all said and done though i still hold a 5% chance because i have been super tired and just a little warm so im hoping that can get me the way.Babe im sorry to put this all on you,your going through so much right now....HUGS XX

Oh Dearmum.....i wish i was over there for you right now.....i would give you super hugs....don't give up yet, you still have a few days to go and like they say miracles can and do happen....your body might just be dealing with it differently.....i had heard medicare do cover a TR, but i myself have not looked into it......you can put anything on me anytime......i'm a big girl, and i am surprisingly now dealing with dad and what he is going through a lot better than what i thought.....hope all goes well....**hugs** kiya

Thanks Kiya....your such a good friend and yes i wish you were here in Perth i would catch up with you all the time.....Hugs

Dearmum.. Dont give up hope when i fell pregnant with Breah all i felt was tired! I had had some brown kind of loss and I started to cry for fear it hadn't worked I wanted this so bad. I was forever greatful i got my bfp but i did a hpt cause i was going mentally insane thats the hardest thing and i do truely know how your feeling.

Hey LUV...so glady the moves all over. Your a champ for getting it done with just you and the kids. Cleaning the old place is the worst cause you just dont want to go back there. I normally clean a room at a time and by the time where ready to move out where all sleeping in the lounge room. I think you all need to treat yourselves to dinner or something nice. Take it easy darlxxx

Hey Storm how you feeling?? I bet your greatful for the cool change. Might be time for the big kids to help mum out abit maybe they could bring in all bubs stuff into your room and make washing piles. Goodluck with getting that much needed bed rest, some doctors have no idea do they!!
Hey Kiya hope your holding up ok.

Well Miss Breah has been so out of wack ever since we went camping. Shes waking 3 times a night and she hasnt woken up since she was about 3mths. Shes only drinking 120ml bottles if that and she was having 240ml no worries at all. Shes gone right off her food and shes wants to be with someone all the time grrr. So ive just worked it out because of our camping trip and cause it was so hot and yuk she got held most of the time and she wouldnt settle herself at night so we rocked her. She didnt eat much while we were away either cause it was to hot. So whats happened is she has gone back to being a 3mth old baby again. Smaller meals waking all the time wanting alot of attention and wanting to be rocked to sleep. So last night we just did controlled crying and kept checking on her and she did go to sleep in the end and slepted all night until the fire alarm decided to go off its head at 3am for no reason but she settled back down herself. So i was right no camping again with little babies if thats whats going to happen. Well girls the last few days I have been getting pretty clucky and thinking alot about having another baby. There are still a couple of things that make me second guess what im thinking and make me stop and think AM I JUST BLOODY CRAZY OR COMPLETELY WACKED OUT OF MY HEAD :lol:. So i'll be putting some extra thinking into it this week
Take care girls xxxx

Dearmum that wasn't very nice of your DH but dinner would have made up for it. Your kids sound like real romantics

whaaaaaaaah......i can't anything on here.....i can't change my mood or anything.....i can fiddle with my signature and preview it, but it won't save it......whaaaaaaaah.....cheers kiya