Tubal Reversals #16

Hi Mrzbaby:hug:Oh i really feel for you....I had after birth in me after my loss and i bleed for 9 weeks without realizing its so hard when you just want to get on with it yet you cant:hug:I would be so angry also having to go through B*****Y 3 D&Cs.You take care we hope to hear some good news soon.

Well ladies since my winge last time i have had good news all around :)
I went into my doc and came up with a white lie saying this will be my last transfer and i dont want to leave one embie behind so he gave me the ok fewwww.I felt so proud coz he is such a hard doc to stand up to.
So then i was worried sick that maybe my last 2 embies wont survive the thaw and i got the good news yesterday that they did:dance:
So today was my transfer of 2 great looking blasties and i cant be happier.Now i just need one more hurdle and im home free yep i need them to stick on,any ideas?..lol
Huh i had a cry on my way home coz its been such a drama week and now i have my embies in and im just so happy.The thought of having twins is making me so excited but i need to realize that having them both implant is asking for alot.
On another topic my DD has finally found a nice gown its very simple but thats the way she wants it.She has also chosen her Malaysian outfits so everything is going smoothly but slowly.We just need to figure out catering and a few bits and pieces and were done.Her theme is red and white so im ecited to see how its all going to look.
Now a quick question would any of you lovely ladies be able to come?i would love to meet you and it will be great day.
Well i must get back to resting :bedtime:

Dear Mum: I am spine tingling with joy for you ! good for you standing up to the doc. You go girl.....:leap:
I wish you EVERY ( yes and I am yelling it ...with joy from the roof top ) EVERY EVERY BIT OF :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy::stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy::pregnant: wishes for you.
I so want this to work for you.
I am not a religous person but have found myself praying a lot lately and tonight I will include you in my prayers if that ok.


AFM: Yeah well I am feeling a lot stronger and better / clearer about things now. DH and I have tlaked about the TTC and have decided that as soon as AF comes back ( I am home Aunt Flow visit anytime soon :pray: lol!) we are back into the BD with the help of clomid.... Maybe there might be two sets of twins come from this thread Dear mum..

Thanks for all the messages they have really helped pull me through all of this ( I have been reading them on my blackberry in hosp.. but can't log in for some reason:dunno:

Take care Em

dearmum, glad your making some progress with the two embies being transferred. when i was going down the ivf i was quite adamant with them about putting two back, but i never heard back from them. I really hope that they stick for you...
mrz baby, thats awful that you are going back for another d&c how horrible. I hope they get everything... although you have to ask why they didn't get it all the first time!
kiya.. hey how are you...
onemore, great to hear maddison is doing great....
em, i did post to you after i read about breah's birthday, but the stupid thing didn't load on the page and it must have got lost. anyway, i felt for you... I am glad though you had beautiful breah... and i hope it was a happy day. I haven't been up to nothing. started back at uni. doing one subject so its pretty crusie. other things are ok at the moment but they tend to change often. I still pray and ask god to help things and to still have one little bubba again. I guess it will be in his time...
hey to everyone else.

Hi Ladies.....
Mrzbaby......Thanks ever so much i would really appreciate it if you could pray for my embies to stick coz they are my last hope.
You sound a little happier today :hug:I hope AF comes on down soon so you can start a new fresh cycle.Our dreams will come true (god willing)if we just keep them alive.

Hi Luvchildren....Babe did you do IVF?
Yeh most docs over here are idiots you need to be totally infertile or have bad embies to get a chance at having 2 put back GRRRR.I needed to be sneaky and come up with a very good excuse to have 2 put back.I feel its pointless transfering 1 frozen because there not as good as fresh,i can agree on just transfering just 1 fresh but it still should be upto us.

Well ladies today at my transfer i asked to have my urine tested and its come back with blood in it so that means i still have my urine infection what worries me is will it affect the implantation...the nurse said she doesnt think so but thats not the answer i was after so im going to try and get a appt to see my normal doc soon.I dont understand why i keep getting them :cry:

Dearmum good work darl and i have everything crossed for you. I think you really need to see someone about your UTI and FaSt. Im sure you don't want history repeating its self.
luv.....Hi darl Breahs birthday is on the 1st of May but im in the middle of planning everything and still have no ideas on wat to do for it but it has to be special. Hope your ok and keeping busy.
Better go im babysitting today, not fun for me hehe xxxxxx

sorry girls for being MIA, but you will never believe what has happened again with the ^%&$#@! again....she is at it again butt his time she has gone one step further this time....she is now publicly claiming that everything DH and i have done in our life is happening with her to the point she has even publicly said that DH and i have separated and they are back together and she is living in our house with not just my kids, but her kids as well.....it is horrible and it is now scaring me that she is living in such a fictional world....DH and i are not going to see our solicitor to put an AVO against her.....keep you up to date....cheers kiya

oops sorry....i should have written that we are going to see about placing an AVO against her....she has frazzled me that much that i'm not thinking straight......we have been getting prank calls for the past 2 days as well....why can't she just leave us alone....she is married to some other guy....obviously she won;t be happy until she has not just her DH, but mine as well......kiya

Hi girls well there nothing exciting going on in here you are becoming a boring bunch lol......
Well i'll just have to liven things up.
DF comes home today and says its TIME........Im like time for bloody what???? Its time we started looking into having our FET. I just started laughing at him like we had spoken about it but not really in detail and we hadnt set anything in concret.
So i have to go back and get a referral to see my FS and get referred back to westmead and have my blood work and maybe an ultrasound done again and thats it. Sound pretty simple really so going to see the FS on the 29th of April and get the ball rolling once again.
DF says so what do we do this time do we have two embryos ( day 6 blasties) put back or just one...............
The question remains open for disgustion.................

Kiya sorry things are up the $hit again. I say just give it to her right between the eyes

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oops sorry....i should have written that we are going to see about placing an AVO against her....she has frazzled me that much that i'm not thinking straight......we have been getting prank calls for the past 2 days as well....why can't she just leave us alone....she is married to some other guy....obviously she won;t be happy until she has not just her DH, but mine as well......kiya

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Oh Kiya.... I see that we share the same problems with the DH ex.... I have concluded that she ( ex) even though has gone off and had children to her partner is really unhappy actually miserable because they had it so good with our hubbys and thought they could get better... so here is my little time line :
went to get better discovered that there wasn't better out there..... had kids so see if it could get better that way... still not better... oh $hit there ex have a new partner mmmm she won't compare to me becasue i am so damn great ( NOT!).... Ok heres trouble they are getting married... he can't possibly live without me... Damn he is happy and I'm miserable ... how am i going to survive now?.... by being a complete &%$ch!

Oh kiya I dont even live in the same state and have have met my DH ex but the amount of crap she puts us through is jus amazing.... I wish shewould just go enjoy being miserable in the life she made for herself..... Won't happen... It is now to the point she uses the kids and bags there dad out about how bad he ius and how he doesn't care .... he does care but he just doesn't want to ring th house as he doesn't want or need to put up with her he only wants to have contact with the kids.... Some ex's need there own country to be flown to. One with no means of external communication such as phones internet, mail...
i know its hards try to keep your chin up...I often wonder if our little bean died becasue of how much stress we were going through at that time.
Hope you get the AVO... They are hard to get when kids are involved ... well it was for me I know because of my ex.


Dear Mum: still praying for you and thinking of you here is so more :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy::noaf: for you hun.... you can never have to much hey ;)

Mum of six: great news about your FET apt... I thoughn it was great that your DF cam home with the lets do this now idea... Good luck and may this be the start of our next forever baby...

WOOHOO....jumping around doing the baby dance with Mo6 (mum of 6)....can't wait to hear a BFP from you soon....

Jodes.....hang in there darl....there must be something out there that will stop the uti's from hanging around.....i know i always had them when i was preg, but they always but me on antibiotics to clear it up....nothing worse than being preg and feelign like you are peeing out razor blades. you don;t have a little stone in there do you that could be causing a blockage and not allowing the pee to flow through clearly causing the irritation that turns to UTI ?

waves to everyone else and says how you all going ?....cheers kiya

So out of touch again Ladies.

All doing well here, still no baby LOL, though I don't blame him, who would want to come out & met us atm when my lovely 14yo is being a right b...ch?grrrrrrr


Did I read right Em? ooooooooooo wow!!!!

storm.....you are looking fab-u-lous darl.....that big belly of yours looks beautiful.....he will come when he is ready.....i can totally relate to you wanting to see him and wanting him out, but maybe your body is saying let things settle with your dd then he will say "here i am".....wishing you all the best....cheers kiya

LOL See thats much better. I knew i would get everyones ears *****ed up and now I have something to read hehe.
Ive been walking around in my own little bubble today happy kind of but worried and scared at the sametime. Then i think $hit I just got myself a new car at xmas time so now how the hell will we all fit unless we take two cars:doh:.
And 2 babies MAYBE???:rolleyes: well im kind of thinking that might be to much of an ask from me this time..

Storm sorry to hear DD is being a B'Arch how old is she? Can i help out in anyway? Im a good listener..........
Hope all you girls are good and keep talking!! I dont care if your talking rubbish or mumble, its all good hehehe
Em xxxxxxxx

She is 14 Em, such a wonderful age (not)!! argh, she'll come good soon I hope, the inside of her bedroom will get boring after a while I'm sure.
Wow 2 babies, how exciting.

Thanks Kiya, though it feels like a large basketball these days, LOL, will be very glad to meet my little guy, whenever he decided to come..........I do hope it's soon though.

kiya, hang in there. I had enormous trouble when i first married. what sucked is that it always seemed that my dh never address the issue. I hope the avo works out and she just goes away. what i can't believe is that she has so much time to stick her nose into your life!
storm, wow you look great... you probably don't feel it and i wish i was looking like that but, i hope that you are feeling okay... i hear you about you 14 year old, that can be a handful and i do the same thing... my 16 year has lost her precious mobile phone for 5 weeks! just because of the attitude thing... i can't believe what they are game to do and say....
jodes, i hope the two little ones stick for you.......
em, wow yes you are a topic starter aren't you..... well it would be a big ask! where did he come from with that? it would be exciting and scary.... i can take your place if you want LOL. I have started my subject again but will be on holidays soon. Things are pretty much the same for me and though i keep praying.....
mrz baby, hope the clomid does it for you....

Hi girls just wanted to pop in very quickly. Ive had 5 games of footy today with the boys. Grrr bloody trials............. So tired now.
DF and i are keeping a very low profile on this nex cycle so for those beautiful friends of mine on facebook:shhh: Our bellybelly secret. Thanks girls xxxxx

Emm......how do you find the time to fit all of that in ?? Your secret is safe with me......cheers kiya

Ive gotta come back in here more dont I.......hi ya girlies :) remember me


Ive gotta go back and read up on what yourve all been up to. My little manis running amuck...gets into everything and is jsut alittle red headed monster.lol.

Jo had her darling Noah yesterday...he is gorgeous...makes me so clucky :(

ok not going to be a stranger anymore...mauws ladies

oh Em - im having a bad month...I lost my twins in March 2007 and I cant let the pain go :(

:hello:Ladies.....
:hooray:This morning i done a HPT and......it came out a faint positiveOMG IM SO EXCITEDi still have 3 days until my BT so i hope im not getting my hopes up for nothing.I will test again tommorro to see if the line gets darker.Guys this could just be the third time lucky that im looking for:pray:

Well im off to bed coz i have a bad headache i will pop in again tommorro.:D

Dear mum here is some more :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy::stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy: So happy for you hon :pray: for you and your babelets..Em

YAY NOAH IS HERE THATS AWESOME NEWS CANT WAIT TO HERE ALL ABOUT IT.

Hey Maz you slack tart hehe. Its to bloody hard isn't it but I manage to get get by and so lucky I have Breah... Looking good girl!

Kiya sometimes i ask myself the same question and i just do cause Im the mum and i have to. So tired at the moment so I went and had some blood tests and my iron levels are dangerously low. My liver tests are triple what they should be and Im not a drinker. So worried cause my nan and pop both died from Liver problems. So im off to have an ultrasound on tuesday and another on wednesday.

:happyforyou:Oh Dearmum im so so excited for you i wish i was there to share the experiance :loveshower: Take it easy darl xxxxx

:hooray:It was another :bfp:line im soooo happy but scared of course,i have been given the ok to have my BT tommorro i :pray:my levels come back good.

Hi Mumof6....:dance:Hehe i would love to be able to call you mumof7 go for it girl kids are such a blessing and make the house happier so WHY not.

How is everyone today?

OMG OMG OMG!


WOOOOO HOOOOOOO DM you have so made my day hon!!!!!!!!!

CONGRATULATIONS :happyforyou:

:partysmiley:Thanks Mrs Baby & Maz
Yeh im still really shocked about it,i didnt think it would work because its a FET so i was waiting to finish up the embies and go onto a fresh cycle so yeh its a good shock hehe.
Now just gota wait for my BT to see how the levels look and then my 7 week scan to see if there one or two:dance:Shhhh but im hoping for two but one will be fine also.Huh my family is already guessing the sex,my DS thinks its a Girl because of the patern iv had so far and my DH thinks boy so i told them well i will have two:lol:
Im SOOOOO HAPPY.

Dearmum you have made me smile. So happy for you and praying things will run smooth this time.

CAUTION VENT.... We have just got home from Breah Baptism. We decided to keep it very low key this time and it was just us and robs parents where coming. THEY DIDNT SHOW UP!. All for the sake of watching there 27year old daughter play a soccer trial for the local club. Not even a real soccer game GRRRR WTF!! They said they wouldnt miss seeing her be baptised for the world. It was lovely anyway and they gave our little Angel a mention and I lost it big time.. I knew he was going to do it so I was ready and fine with the hole thing. But I didnt expect him to say what he did. Was beautiful.
Take care girls XXXXXX

Emm......oh darl....i'm so sorry darl.....that is not right.....Breah is their grandbubby....how can a soccer game be more important than a baptism......honey take it easy and i would get a 2nd opinion about the liver levels.......

Jodes......babe.....that is awesome news.....i so wish i was over in Perth right night.....we could go out to Miss Maud and celebrate over a few coffees and fabulous cakes and pastries.......LOL

Storm......****CONGRATS*** honey ont eh save arrival of little Noah....can't wait to ehar all the wonderful news about it all.

On the home front for me......the silly biarch does not let up and i am so sick and tired of hearing how she is living our life....she tried to go and tell our very close friends her life story and they so quickly put her in her place.....they said she couldn't leave their house quick enough....LOL i laughed so hard i had tears comign out my eyes.

To everyone else....what you all been up to????

Take care everyone....**HUGS TO ALL** kiya

Hi Mumof6.....:hug:Oh it sounded like a very special day if i was there i would have come:comfort:.Yeh family to me is full of let down.
So tell me when is the next one happening:cheer:

Hi Kyia.....Babe you have been through to much to put up with her Sh*t,she needs her head knocked in.:hug:I would do the pleasures if i was there,well give her a mouth full atleast GRRRR.Stay strong ok you will get through this,something has got to happen sooner or later.Hehe come and live over here in Perth,we could have that coffee at Miss Mauds.

Well tommorro is my BIG day i find out for sure whats happening with my BT,i was suppose to have it on Tuesday but i asked if they would do it Monday coz i cant stand the extra days wait...LOL
Well im off to bed gotta get my beauty sleep huh.

Dearmum Good luck today:pray: Ive had some but blood test results so ive got to sort that out before having another bub. I have to go for an ultrasound tomorrow and again on wednesday to see whats going on. But I have made a FS appointment on the 29th of April and then we will go from there

jodes....i so can't wait to here your good news.....i'm sitting her with everything crossed for you.....you are welcome to come and knock her head off, but be warned like they say $hit splatters, so you may not want to get yourself dirty....LOL....cheers kiya

wishing you all the best mumof6 for good results on your tests and your upcoming FET....kiya

WOOHOO.....lets hope it is all now finished with DH's ex. he had a phone call today from his solicitor telling him that CSA called him to arrange a meeting with not just DH, but his solicitor as they have found something of interest in his case file.....now she has removed everything from the networking site that she is on following my DH....i hope she is running scared, because what she has put all us through for the past so many years and recently she deserves to be put through the ringer big time....i know i shouldn't be happy, but i have had nothing but abuse from her since day "1".....cheers kiya

:hooray:IM PREGNANT...MY LEVELS ARE 225 @ 13 DAYSpo :hooray:THEY SAID THERES A GOOD POSSIBLITY I HAVE TWINS OHHHH IM JUST SOOOO HAPPY.
I will be having another BT on Friday :bfp:

Thanks ladies for allll the support you have given me :grouphug:i feel so blessed to be able to be pregnant again and to have such good friends like yourselves...XX

Can't speak so so happy for you OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh this fantastic
Congratulations hun OMG ok the little dude on the screen is doing what i am about to do .....:leap:
Love Em

Forgot to say........ Stick little ones.... and here is some more :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy::bellyrubs: for all of you ;)

Kiya... Just saw your PM will reply tonight.. looks like good news for you about the CSa / solictior apt good luck..working no so PM later.
Mum of Six: Best wishes for your liver tests... As for your family... Don't let them beat you up on this.. You and your DH and closer family got to witness such a beautiful event, an event that they will never be able to witness again.... this is their problem.Its hard I know but doing your head in over people who really don't deserve and inch more of your thoughts is just as hard..... I had to learn to do this as a child / teenager with my non functional extended family.
Storm.. Congrats on Noahs arrival.
Maz... Looking good... may I ask how you are loosing it? I am trying so hard but it just doens't seem to be shedding thinkg about Tony Ferguson... :dunno:

AFM: Went to my Ob apt yesterday for a follow up after the last D&C ( which by the way has worked). He was about to write me a script for the implanon ( I didn't want to try yet as DH is still smoking and wanted to wait for 4 months before trying again ( pill doesn't work... I forget... He hates condoms..go figure!) Then he said hang on you had your reversal in August didn't you! Yeah... Then he proceed to tell me that I need to think about concieving from my next cycle ( whenever that arrives ) as my time is running out and I really should try to fall pregnant before August as after that the tubes can scar and have problems. So instead of Implanon I got Clomid !!!!!! :ROFL:
So I guess I am back on the concieving tain again... just need an AF to get me started...
I am amazed at how un ready and now ready i have been in a matter of a day when you are given the odds of it all i guess it snapped me back into reality....Or my DH got to the doctor before me lol ! (He wanted to TTC straight away)

anyhow be back later... Em
I am sure I ahve not mentioned everyone...I will be back tonight with a more comprehensive persies for everyone.

OMG Dearmum my levels were 96 at that stage 4wks 4days and I was having twins. 5wks 5days they had reached 748. Maybe the eggs both split(as they can)and your having triplets HEHEHEHE. Oh now that would be pi$$ funny

****CONGRATS**** Jodes. I am so happy for you. This has been along time coming. Hope those little buggers stick and you can at the end of it all have a wonderful bubba......**hugs** kiya

mumo6.....now that would be very funny if they both split and she ends up with QUADS......LOL...kiya

:rofl:You guys are funny,hmmm i would love 2 of each :lol:
So yeh i need to have another BT this Friday that will give me more clues.I am just :pray:its twins.I wont know until my 7 week check though.

Wow its sounds like im not going to be the only pregnant muma this year hey:clap:
Bring on more BFPs

Kiya.....Babe i hope they can nail her because she needs to pay for what she has put your family through GRRRR.
Hows ya dad doing?.....HUGS

Dearmum.....yeah so do i....she has done nothing but try and destroy my family and our lives....from the brief thing dh was saying is that it looks like she has falsified some things to the CSA and if she has then he gets every cent he has paid to her BACK. Nearly 17 years of payments...WOOHOO

Dad is now on week 3 of treatment. they have him on needles and tablets at the moment as they want to see how the cancer takes to that before looking at other treatment options. His oncologist was saying that this form of treatment can kill off some of the cancer cells that's why they are trying ti first. We have our fingers crossed that it does and if there are signs of cells dieing off then they will continue with this treatment. He also keeps joking around that he is going to be a black man soon because this option changes his skin colour to a much darker colour....LOL.......kiya

Sorry for being M.I.A....
Congrats Dearmum on your :bfp:

Kiya Hope things are starting to look more on the bright side for you

As for me I finally got my date for my TR 24th of March which is next week.... the only thing thats going to kill me is not being able to drive for 4 weeks but its likely to be 6 seeing that the insurance wont cover me for the 6 weeks post surgery.... then we are off to the gold coast for 2 weeks in May hopefully everything will be right to start ttc when we get back :crossfingers:

Hope everyone else is doing well
Chat to you later got to take kids to swimming

Karen