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Hi everyone,
Just wanted to pop in ....Only just found this part of the forum!!.
I had my reversal done last year in August by Dr Woolcott....For anyone considering he is brilliant!!!!! Exceptional.
He told me I would be pregnant by Xmas ...that we were but unfortunately as one of my BB friends said we just didn't get the receipe right.........
I had my Early Preg Loss support person ring today and she was caring. Telling me just because I had one M/C there is noe reason to have another...I guess I am feeling stronger about things at the moment.
I haven't made my final decision about TTC again but as I said I am feeling stronger.
Part of me is now frustrated that I have to go back through all this waiting for AF and temps etc......
Part of me is just damned determined saying I didn't get this reversal done for nothing!!!!!!!
This was our first baby ( my DH and Mine). I remember being wheeled down the corridor at the hosp when I had my last daughter ( i was in a bad controlling relationship and the thought of having anymore children with him was not an option ) I told my mother ...all I wanted was to have a child with a man that loved me as much as I loved him......And I found him my fantastic DH.
Anyhow I just wanted to say Hi...I am feeling determined... and getting stronger...Just not ready to make that next step yet..
Em
Hi Mrzbaby Im so sorry for your loss I truely am. I got some bad news off my neighbour today and all i want to do is cry. She had her tubes tied 7 years ago and out of the blue fell pregnant with them still tied. Today at 39.5wks her little girls was born sleeping. Rest in peace little one
Oh Mumof6, i'm so sorry for your neighbours loss....it must be devastating right now for her atm.
mrzbaby.....hi, welcome and i to am sorry for your loss....the emotions you are going through right now are very normal.....you will know when it is the right to TTC again....things always have a way of falling into place att he right time.
Jodes.....how you going babe ??
myself, i am going ok....trying not think about dad esepcially tomorrow as that is when he finds out about treatment.....but other than that i am doing good.
to everyone else, a big HOWDY...**WAVES** at you all.
cheers....kiya
hey does anyone know why i can't change my mood ??? i used to be able to and now i can't.......blah.....this is driving me crazy.....why won;t my silly computer work how i want it to work.....kiya
Hi Mrzbaby, welcome. I'm so so very sorry for your loss. I had my TR done by woolcott too.Brilliant man I reckon!!
LOL KIya, no idea why you can't change anything either, sorry.
Oh how sad for your neighbour Em, sending some hugs your way.
Jodes, how are you holding up hun?
AFM, well Dh is away for a few days, family emergency, again ,getting sick of it all TBH.
& I've started leaking, grrrrrrr it's really revolting. I don't think anything is gonna happen, well I hope not anyway.
Oh Storm keep your legs up and shut hehe. Gee i feel so sick in the tummy at the moment for my poor neighbour.
Oh Em Honey.....wish i was with you as well.....why are us women having such bad luck......what did we ever do wrong.... ..**hugs to your neighbour and you as well**...kiya
I feel silly cause I just want to cry for her but it wasn't even my baby. Why does this have to happen she didnt even get to see this beautiful world we live in,its like it was stolen from her. I just can't stop thinking about how sad she is right now. I guess it makes me think of my baby I lost which makes me even sader. Life is so unfair but in the same breath i thank god i have six health beautiful children.
Emm......sweetheart, don't for one minute think you are silly for wanting to cry....if you feel you need to cry, let it all out....remember this, you are a mum, you are a wonderful mum, and you have also felt what it is like to lose a child.....you know what your neighbour/friend is going through and you want to grieve with her.....it will also in some respects also bring some final closure to your little one, and with this you will be able to move on and also help with you deciding to have another bubba.....wish you well, and remember, it is ok to let it all out......**hugs**.....kiya
Thanks Kiya that was beautiful and all so very true. I would love to go and comfort her but it doesnt seem right I want to send flowers but that doesn't seem right either. These doctor's toy with our lives and play god abit to much for my liking these days. They told my neighbour at 28 wks that bub was very small only measuring 20wks and they would deliever her at 32wks cause babies seem to thrieve better in this situation outside of mum. All seemed fine after all that and bub was doing well. But they never did the c-section only to tell her if she made it to 36 wks they would do the c-section then to play it safe. I don't understand what happened and they didn't play it safe at all and now she has lost her miracle baby.
All is very quiet in here girls
Hey Em....I was thinking the same......it is a quiet little room.....not much happening here at my end....still pottering along as normal.....cheers kiya
Hi Everyone.....just wanted to give you an update on dad....well as you know he had to go back today to find out what treatment etc because they were waiting for a test to come back on Tuesday which hadn't come back in time. .... well he has cancer in both lungs, under his rib area, in his esophagus and in his back.....he starts treatment next Thursday of tablets and needles....at the moment his oncologist does not think he needs to have chemo because she believes and how it looks even though it is aggressive it is and could be treatable with just the pills and needles......he is happy and when he called me was actually sitting down having his beer like usual.....he told me himself that he is going to fight this and not let it beat him.....i am so proud of him.....thanks everyone for being there when i needed it.....hugs to all nikki (kiya)
Thats awesome news Kiya thats he is prepared to fight this thing. Its gunna be a long road ahead but atleast you have each other for support.
Gee its a ghost town in here..................................
kiya, glad to hear about your dad.... our spirit can do more than we think.. i will pray for him....
hey storm, that doesn't sound good. how much longer do you have? i have had 2 hind leaks... and they always made me stay in hospital for fear of infection.
em, that would be heart renching. that would make me cry. don't feel bad... you are just a great person with a big heart. i am happy that you are thinking again. wish it was me. i am still cleaning the other house, but hopefully finish this week. things are still pretty much the same... i am still praying and i am still hopin that i will have another one of these days too.... sorry to hear about breah... they definately know when you rock them that they want it again hey... is she teethin? or are her ears ok? just some suggestions.. not sure if they will help.
onemore, hope you little girl is doin well.
Hey Luv im praying things change for the better soon darl, i think things can only get better from here on in. Breah is teething but shes doing ok she only has two. Once we did the controlled cry that night she has been heaps better.. Well next door had a memorial service at the house yesterday and i was invited but I stayed well away. So they came over and got me last night and said come over and have some Irish whiskey with us. So i went over and had afew drinks till 230am:rolleyes:. They were so drunk but to be expected, she showed me these poems that they had read. One was called Hello mummy and the other was called Its ok daddy. I started reading this poem the mummy one first and i was in tears and by they second one i had to pull my T shirt up under my eyes,breath taking!!
Been rushed off my feet this week with the kids cause they have all had a virus but there on the mend now:pray:.
Hi Ladies;)Sorry iv been MIA for a while trying to get babies out of my head but finding it difficult.Not to much going on my end,i have another cycle happening and im expecting another transfer around the 6th March and im so hoping this time my B*****Y Doc will allow 2 to be put in:pray:.I have 2 embies left so im really praying they both make the thaw and both get transfered but only time will tell i guess.With all the BFNs iv been getting its making me mad to keep going at this TTC path because i dont want to lose..lol
So as for my DD we have found a lovely spot for her wedding but theres a snag.....they can only get married if her DF loan gets approved and so far one bank has rejected them.Fingers crossed we will hear some good news on Friday.
Hi Mrsbaby....You know i have learnt with all the ups and downs that if you give up means you lost so keep going in the end you will win and be so proud of it.
Hi Mumof6.....OMG how sad for your neighbour....I really wish i had been there to support her and cry with her she really needs the extra support.I can imagine how she feels and i can asure you she will never get over what had happened.Its been months for me now and i still cry over my loss and i can never see a day going by were i will forget my baby boy its just way to painful.
Babe glad to hear your kids are on the mend...XX
Hi Luv....Babe i hope that oneday your dream comes true,you may suprise yourself one of these days...XX
Hi Kiya.....Oh Darl...I can only imagine how your feeling,your Dad is in my prayers please tell him that ok.How are you coping?
Hi Storm....Wow it sounds like your going to pop any minute....hmm i wish you all the best....HUGS
Hi Onemore....Babe hows your precious baby girl?i bet shes a absolute angel.
Well ladies im off to bed,will pop in again another time....HUGS
Dearmum....you can be MIA for as long as you want and need.....we will all be here when you return....i know it has been a hard slog with the FET's, but don't give up, not yet....If like you say both thaw out, get them put back in....it will if anything better your chances....wishing you the very best......bummer about your DD DF and not being able to get a loan for the wedding......things will work out there as well....i'm doing ok.....dad starts his treatment this Thursday....his oncologist wants to start him on a course of needles and tablets....she wants to hold off from the chemo on him for now as the option she is trying first has good results.....well time to go and make a cuppa.....hugs to all....kiya
HI Girls,
Well I too have been MIA.... Was admited back to hospital last thursday withr retained tissue?? from the D & C.... My bodu has been busym making more baby juice for the baby that isn't there anymore....arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgghh.
Apparently..This is where you girls come in ... arfet a reversal if you M/C you can have pblems with the bleeding afterwards....Anyone know fo this?
Anyhow must get me to be back on track then back to Baby dancing:dance: in May ( as going to be april but now thinking May might be better..
Take Care EM
oh Mrzbaby.....you must be going through so much right now....take it easy and things will fall into place.....sorry i can't help you with a m/c after reversal....i haven't had a TR, but i have fall preg while having my TL twice and m/c both....because i have heavy AF the bleeding was the same just at different times.....take care and all the best....kiya
hi all been awhile since ive been on managed to do some catch up reading on here alot has gone on since last i was here, thinking of you guys who has had losses take it easy when the time is right everything will fall into place.
im scheduled for my tr in april with dr woolcott!!!! im excited but scared at the same time, have spoken with dr he seems very nice, but i have a fear of anesetic not that anything has happened in previous ops. can anyone inform me of what to expect with the op, i have read alot but an interested in your opinion since some of you guys have had this done. how painful? how long it took to get back to normal? i felt terrible after tl and expecting this to be the same, painful and horrible!
cheers guys
Hey Bel so excited for you. Its ok to be scared god only knows i was shighting myself to.
The fear of not being in control and not being awake to know what was going on. Sure i had had c-sections before but i was awake and felt in full control even tho I wasnt hehe. My T/R was done via key hole not sure how yours will be done. I went in at 7am in the morning and was home by 5pm that afternoon. The surgery took an hour 15minutes from memory and it all went well. I was in and out of sleep for a couple of hours then they sent me home. I felt every bump on the drive home i was ready to knock D/F out and was pretty bloated for afew days. The pain was definatly there and was uncumfy but it was ok cause it was for a good cause. The pain was nothing like my c-section so that was a plus. Good luck and hope it all goes well. Keep intouch
Oooops i forgot to say hi to all the girls! Hope everyone is doing well! xxxxxx
bel78.....wishing you the best of luck for your TR......everything will be fine and you will come out of it perfectly fine.....just take your time after it is done and then start doing your baby dance....lol.....cheers kiya
Hi Ladies;)Well just a update on me again...lol
Well im having BTs everyday to check if i have "Od" my levels are going up slowly they are at 600 today and they want them at 1000 so a few days and i should "O" and transfer either late next week or early the week after.
I was so B***Dy mad today you know how i wanted 2 transfered back well i got a NO WAY again from my doc GRRR.Yeh my clinic asked him and he said no way she has kids and fell pregnant on her first go blah blah blah i really dont know whats his problem i mean he is against twin pregnancies ummm i prefere a twin pregnancy compared to none geez iv had 2 FET with BFN and i only have 2 bubs left whats wrong just to put them both in.Gosh i have no power over my own embies.
Theres a catch aswell if i change clinics i would be lucky and be able to transfer 2 at a time but the new clinics expect $6000 up front were my clinic you pay after your all finish and you can pay it off slowly.So because i dont have the $$$$ up front im stuck with putting up with this Dic of a doc.I have booked another lady doc at the same clinic but i cant get in until August ahhhhh.
Yeh im really sick of this IVF rollercoaster but its hard to get off.
I wish i had done a TR that way i have both but now my funds are gone.If i can find a doc that will go to a public hospital to do the TR i will go for that.
Sorry for all this rambling....
How is everyone?
Kiya send my hugs to your Dad ok,hope your going ok....
XXJodie
Hi I had byTR done by Dr Woolcott and he is awesome he anthestist is just as awesome and i highly recommend both. Your can ring Dr woolcotts rooms and ask for the anth Drs number and have a chat to him...I did cause i was just as scared!!!:
As for pain it is not too bad and they look after you really well the most important part is a day or two after isd to wak around. Both drs will tell you this. I had a bit of a sore throat from the anths but apart from that i was ok....although I was lucky to be the 1 in 200 that got the heamatoma afterwards but hey Dr woolcoot looked after me even though i did not live there ( but i did have the benefit of my Ob /gyno up here being one of his good friends!)
Relax get ready and the other thing i most importantly reccommend s not to try for a few months give those tubes more than enough time to heal after to op as you don't wanat to increase the risk of a tubal. I had mine don last August and wedid not start trying till Nov ( but i didn't O ) but struck luck in Dec ( yes you will see my angel has dieds but not as a result of any of this ) and as soon as AF comes back (please please please hurry up quick AF!!! bet you don't see many women begging for it to come !!:ROFL:)
we will be baby dancing big time.
********* Start your Blackmores conception gold / foltate / whatever other vitamins you take for pre conception NOW before the op and get you Darling man to take Menevit as well :sperm:sperm health like you take for pre conception his is just as important ***********
Then go dance when you get the OK.
Good luck
Regards EM
thanx mrzbaby,
i will have a talk to anes, it is so encouraging to talk to gals who have been thru this before thankyou, unfortunatly hubby does not want anymore bubs, i on the other hand are feeling quit clucky and would really like another, getting tr done to feel normal again, hope im doing the right thing hate operations but feel more confident with the doc i have chosen.
so sorry for your loss, hope everything turns out for you the way you want it to
godbless bel78
Oh my god girls can you believe my little princess is going to have her first birthday in 8 weeks. How the hell did that happen where did that time go. With Breah's first birthday fast approching I can't stop thinking about my little angel Breah's twin. I have found myself in tears to many times this week but I think in away its a good thing. Im going to make her a number one cake. Im going to put one candle and 2 sparklers on the cake one for Breah and one for her twin. Noone will realize what it means but i wanted to do something little without making it a big deal cause i dont want people to think im weird or anything.
Take it easy girls xxx
Hi Mumof6:crying:Oh you really have touched my heart,i say good on ya for thinking of the lost twin i know i would be feeling just like you:hug:
Im going to visit my baby boy on his birthday,i dont know if i can bring my kids or my DH coz i hate crying in front of them but i know they will wont to come.I know im going to cry my head off and i just dont know what to say to him but i know i need to see him.Ahh this whole IVF has been such a rollercoaster and one that i dont want to be on forever.
Your baby Breah remindes me so much of my Shaheed coz i got my BFP not long after you had Breah.I wish i was there with you.XX
Dearmum....your fet are they just all natural or do you use the crinone(the stuff you insert) to help make the embryo stick??
Hi girls, sorry I`ve been mia for a while.... forgot how busy you get with a new baby:D
Maddison is doing really well, cant believe she is 4 weeks 4 days old, it has gone so fast.
mrzbaby - so sorry to hear of your loss, I also lost my first baby after t/r I was 9 weeks.
I got my first period 6 weeks after that. Every woman is different and I hope you dont have to wait too long to get bd`ing again. I m/c in Nov 07 and I fell pg again in May 08 and our little girl was born on Jan 29th 09. Oh and I did`nt have any probs with bleeding after, so cant help you there sorry.
Best of luck with the op bel, you will be just fine....
Thinking of you Dearmum:hug:
Well bub is waking and I`ve got tea going so I better finish up.
Take care
Hi Ladies;)Well i have a transfer again on Sunday so here we go again,i have a doc appt today to try and convince the bugger to transfer my last 2 embies so next time i can go onto a fresh cycle,but with his strick mentality its going to be tough.
Hi Mumof6......Yeh i have been having totally natural FET cycles,but this cycle i have requested progestrone so will have to see the difference.I have heard now down the track that Crinone helps with the blood flo and helps support pregnancies and i really dont know why my D**K head Doctor didnt put me on them before because i feel with my first FET i had a chemical pregnancy coz my levels were there but they dropped off BUT if they had given me some sort of support i think that pregnancy could have made it.:angry:
Oh well you learn as you go along i guess.
How did the birthday go?
Hi Onemore.....Wow yeh time sure has flown by,sounds like your a happy busy mum.Will that be all for you or onemore?
Hi Kiya.....Babe how are you going?
Hi Storm.....Hows things your side?Have you had bubs yet?
Well i need to keep it quick as i have to drop my kids to school so take care guys and i will be back again soon.:hug:
Dearmum i think all of what you are saying is a good idea. I had crinone with Breah which is very much the same as what you had on your first cycle. Some doctors have no idea do they.Breahs birthday is still afew weeks off yet but my son is a big 3 today. Breah is to be baptised on the 15th March so we have also asked the minster to light 2 candle in memory but no words to be said. I think its good for me cause i really seem to be struggling with the loss but only lately. I dont know why maybe I just didnt deal with it properly in the first place. Hope the appt went well today xxx
Hmm my post from hours ago wouldnt show!!!!Weird
thats really weird mumof6......strange things are happening with here at the moment....kiya
Hi all,
Well where do I begin???
Tomorrow I am off for my 3rd ...yes 3rd D&C in 3 weeks! over it :wall:over it:wall:over it:wall:. Certainly feeling like I shouldn't be buying a lottery ticket at the moment!
Went to see my gyno after I had my ultrasound and it appears as though the clot I assumed they took out at my 2nd D&C has nearly doubled in size in the last week.
They also gave me the disc of my last ultrasound the one where we discovered our angel had died so today has just been crappy crappy actually it has been plain #$%@!.
I have been having 'after birth ' pains ( thats what the midwife called them in hosp) that just don't seem to go away to the point I now have not slept for 36hours becuase of the pain!!!! Hence my ramblings...
I am trying to remain positive but feeling really angry that this just cant seem to end at the moment.
When I left hospital on the 1st March I wlaked out with confidence asaying start of a new month was the start of happy endings but now I have to have this AGAIN:o
Sorry feeling Very Very sorry for myself.
Happy to be seeing all the BFP, I know one day I will have our forever baby.
Take care ladies,
Em
mrszbaby....you poor ...poor thing....my heart sure does go out to you.....darl things will clear up and you will be able to start doing the baby mumba....LOL....it is probably your body telling you to rest, let it heal and then you can start......**hugs**...kiya
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Mrszbaby.....god darl im so sorry your having to have your 3rd D&C in such a short time must be bloody terrible and scary for you. Its never easy losing a baby and having that ultrasound cant be easy for you to deal with either.:pray: things will return to as normal as possible soon for you!
Take it easy