Of course we remember what it's like! I have four kids and a husband that travels away.

I make a decision some days to NOT drive as I deem that unsafe. I make the decision to NOT drug my kids because that's unsafe!!

It's prioritising.

See my point?
Definitely! Some people's scale of priority (based I guess on the severity of what they are going through) means using the drug has greater priority than the consequence and I absolutely cannot judge them for the (nor would I judge you for choosing differently).